I spend a fair amount of time in Napa and want to share some of my favorite wineries with you.
1. Sattui - A gem in valley. Great cabs and some excellent dessert wines that you can not find in any stores. Go to the tasting room and enjoy the experience. It's free to taste and the Som there is amazing. Really engaging guy and pours nice tasters. Make sure to try their "Angelica", but give it a full nose first and try to discern how it will taste. Be prepared for a complete surprise (I buy this by the case).
2. Whatever you do, stay away from the wine train. At. All. Costs. Its all hype and you really miss the true Napa experience.
3. Silverado Winery is a great place. Its on the Silverado Trail and sits a little higher than the valley so their wines have different notes. I love this place not only for the great wine, but they have some fantastic art work. Take a tour or make nice with the Som and ask to see upstairs. Give a tip and you will get to see some amazing artwork (the biggest piece hung in Grand Central Station in NYC at the turn of the 20th Century.). I always make sure to visit here at least twice a year.
4. A lot of people will tell you that Opus One is great, but I've never really agreed. If you are going to pay 100+ for wine, the gold standard for the "name brand stuff" is Silver Oak. Try and find an '11 or splurge and get the '07. Both are magnificent and worthy of a 10 year anniversary (JUST MAKE SURE TO LET IT BREATH FOR AT LEAST 30 MINS)
5. Take some time walking the streets of St. Helena (north of Napa). Go into the shops and just enjoy the vibe.
6. Visit and have lunch at Gott's Roadside stand on Hwy 29 (Used to be called Taylors Refresher. Fun place to begin and the food is great. Get there early as it gets packed for lunch).
7. Find your way up past St. Helena to Calistoga and venture around there as well. Hit up Ballentine Vineyards and enjoy. Its also a very cool place and the winemaker there is a humble and down to earth dude.
8. Pay for the tour of the Sattui Castle (north of St. Helena) and make sure to pony up a few extra bucks to see the dungeon. Stay away from the wine here as they serve and sell the rejects. Its not as good as the prime store I mentioned earlier. The castle used to stand in England and they brought it over and reassembled it block by block over a 10 year span. It is truly awesome to explore. Its an experience so allow for at least 4 hours.
9. The Mustard Seed or Rutherford Grill would be my choice to take your lady to dinner if you want a nice meal and great selection of wine. The food is fantastic (unless you can sneak into the "French Laundry"... Google it. It carries 2 Michelin Stars...)
10. Take your time and just wander around the whole valley. We NorCal folks are spoiled with Napa, but it is a truly magical place. Shoot me a message if you would like more options.
Have fun and happy anniversary!!!
Good post, LIonGrad2001. I have been to a whole lot of wineries in Napa, being a NorCal guy myself, but I have never been to V. Sattui Winery, even though I have driven by it on Highway 29 a bunch of times. I have always heard the wine is not very good, but it is a great place to picnic. Maybe I should reconsider.
Silverado Winery is a great call. (Don't confuse it with the Silverado Resort, which is at the south end of the Silverado Trail.) It is in the middle section of the Silverado Trail, and boasts great views from the tasting room. Tasting fee is reasonable. I think it is about $35-$40 for tasting, and we got a generous number of wines to taste. Walt Disney's daughter bankrolled the place, so you see a lot of Disney artwork and memorabilia on the walls.
Agree about Silver Oak being preferable to Opus One. I also happen to like Chimney Rock Winery (also on the Trail), although it is pricey at roughly $75 for a tasting. Someone mentioned Mumms Napa Valley (also on the Trail). Had a great tasting experience there. Rutherford Hill (just off the Trail and up in the hills above Rutherford) boasts phenomenal views of the valley, and a great picnic area). Clos Pegase (north end of the Valley) offers a great cave tour. Lastly, someone mentioned Sterling, and said it is in the Sonoma Valley. It is not. It is in the north end of the Napa Valley, between St. Helena and Calistoga. The tram ride from the parking lot up to the winery itself is novel, and the views over the Napa Velley to the south are really good. The wine is good, but not exceptional..
Gotts is a really interesting place to eat. It used to be a drive in back in the day, but it now features picnic tables to eat at. The food is gourmet for a drive in, and they offer a number of different wines. Good place for lunch. Gotts has a sister restaurant in the Ferry Building on the San Francisco waterfront.
To the OP: if you have never been to the Napa Valley, I would highly recommend going to Beringer's. They have a very old and iconic winery facility with cave storage originally dug out by Chinese workers in the late 19th century, when they used "gravity flow" technology in processing wine. And the Rhine House building on the property is a great place to drink wine, particularly if you pay a bit extra and go upstairs to taste premium wines. It is on the north end of St. Helena, right on Highway 29.