Didn't want to hijack the missing student thread with this story, but I read a post there about kids granting access to their parents for purposes of seeing grades...
A good friend of mine had a daughter who decided on a small private college in western NY, I don't even know the name of it anymore. My buddy and his wife drive the daughter up there for freshman orientation. Somebody at the college is seated behind a desk with the three of them before her, and she's telling them that the daughter needs to sign a release to allow her parents to see her grades. The woman hands the kid this form and shows her where to sign. She's hesitant, and carefully scrutinizes this paper and she's clearly not on board with signing this thing.
My buddy sees what's happening and says "Jamie, let me tell you something. I'd like you to think of it this way. I want you to imagine yourself as an emerging, third-world country. I'd like you then to think of your mother and I as a benevolent superpower, like the United States. If you wish to continue to receive support from this superpower, I suggest you sign that document because if you don't, we will cut off all aid, and declare war on you."
A good friend of mine had a daughter who decided on a small private college in western NY, I don't even know the name of it anymore. My buddy and his wife drive the daughter up there for freshman orientation. Somebody at the college is seated behind a desk with the three of them before her, and she's telling them that the daughter needs to sign a release to allow her parents to see her grades. The woman hands the kid this form and shows her where to sign. She's hesitant, and carefully scrutinizes this paper and she's clearly not on board with signing this thing.
My buddy sees what's happening and says "Jamie, let me tell you something. I'd like you to think of it this way. I want you to imagine yourself as an emerging, third-world country. I'd like you then to think of your mother and I as a benevolent superpower, like the United States. If you wish to continue to receive support from this superpower, I suggest you sign that document because if you don't, we will cut off all aid, and declare war on you."