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OT: How reliable are one’s first instincts when meeting a dog for the first time?

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I met a Rottweiler today, a classic example of the breed, a gorgeous dog. Right away I could tell that he was a friendly, loving dog and we spent a few good minutes together during my stay at his home this afternoon. How reliable are one’s first impressions of a dog, generally? I realize that some dogs are might take more time to get to know than others, but this dog today, I could tell right away that we were simpatico.

If it helps, I myself have two dogs, one a similarly good-natured Cane Corso.
 
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I’m a dog lover but have had a few experiences where the dog was leery of me. Mostly, they were rescues that were abused by the male in the bad household. I also had an experience with a neighbor’a dog that was terrified of me until I removed my sunglasses. Once she was able to see my full facial expression(s), she opened up quickly.
 
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I think if you are confident, and non-threatening, they generally are okay with you. If you exhibit anxiety, the dog picks up on it, and is like wtf is going on with our interaction.
 
Assuming you are thinking of getting the dog, the next question is how he will get along with your dogs. I had a dog who was an absolute sweetheart with adults and children of all ages, but would pick fights with all other dogs of any size, and he lost every such fight. Even worse, he went after my neighbor's 16 year old three-legged one-eyed diabetic cat. When I pulled him off his face was covered in blood and my neighbor was crying hysterically. It turned out that the blood was all his - the cat had flipped on its back just started clawing, and was completely unharmed. Clearly my furry warrior was far from the sharpest canine in the kennel.
 
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I met a Rottweiler today, a classic example of the breed, a gorgeous dog. Right away I could tell that he was a friendly, loving dog and we spent a few good minutes together during my stay at his home this afternoon. How reliable are one’s first impressions of a dog, generally? I realize that some dogs are might take more time to get to know than others, but this dog today, I could tell right away that we were simpatico.

If it helps, I myself have two dogs, one a similarly good-natured Cane Corso.

Why? Do you want to date him?
 
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I think they're pretty reliable, though as others have pointed out the dig may react differently to other people and other animals.
 
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I met a Rottweiler today, a classic example of the breed, a gorgeous dog. Right away I could tell that he was a friendly, loving dog and we spent a few good minutes together during my stay at his home this afternoon. How reliable are one’s first impressions of a dog, generally? I realize that some dogs are might take more time to get to know than others, but this dog today, I could tell right away that we were simpatico.

If it helps, I myself have two dogs, one a similarly good-natured Cane Corso.

Seems like you can readily identify a very friendly or unfriendly dog, but I’ve met dogs that seemed concerning and turned out fine, and others that seemed concerning and was correct. So I’m not sure you can say for certain right away on those pups in the middle.
 
My dog is 8 years old and I've taken him to the local hiking trail his entire life. In all that time, hundreds of hikes and probably a couple thousand people, he's only snapped at 2 guys. Both of those guys I knew a bit, and although on cordial terms, I consider both of them to be borderline d-heads. Coincidence?
 
I met a Rottweiler today, a classic example of the breed, a gorgeous dog. Right away I could tell that he was a friendly, loving dog and we spent a few good minutes together during my stay at his home this afternoon. How reliable are one’s first impressions of a dog, generally? I realize that some dogs are might take more time to get to know than others, but this dog today, I could tell right away that we were simpatico.

If it helps, I myself have two dogs, one a similarly good-natured Cane Corso.
Hopefully you can tell by the dog's body language and breed characteristics. My rough collie would bark at any stranger coming to the door until I greeted them. Then he knew that they were okay. That is the behavior is totally in sync with a dog bred to be a guard dog that is naturally wary of strangers.
 
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I’ve heard that a wagging tail ont mean friendly, it means excited so be careful with this.
 
Hopefully you can tell by the dog's body language and breed characteristics. My rough collie would bark at any stranger coming to the door until I greeted them. Then he knew that they were okay. That is the behavior is totally in sync with a dog bred to be a guard dog that is naturally wary of strangers.

Rough Collies are the greatest, I have one and have had three previously
 
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I’ve heard that a wagging tail ont mean friendly, it means excited so be careful with this.

Once as a kid, I was cutting through a couple of back yards on my way home. I came across a German Shepherd laying outside of his doghouse. He saw me, started wagging his tail and did not have a menacing look. I started to approach him and, out of the blue, he flew at me in a rage. Luckily, he was on a chain and I was only an inch or two out of his reach. Probably the only time I completely misjudged a dog. I swear to this day that he was baiting me. Not disparaging shepherds. When raised right, they're loving, smart and very loyal. To the OP, I'd also add my experience with Rottweiler's has been that they look bad ass, but are big babies.

I love all dogs until given a reason not to and will go out of my way to make friends with virtually any dog. If given the time, I believe I can win them all over. It's been my experience that small dogs are less predictable than large dogs. If you're apprehensive when meeting a new dog, especially one that seems skittish, my recommendations are to offer the back of your hand for him/her to sniff (If he's ever been abused, an open palm may be seen as a threat), calmly talk to it like you'd talk to a toddler, look him/her in the eye and smile, remove your hat and sunglasses (again, if it's ever been abused, it may associate you with its abuser) and, most importantly, let the dog decide how quickly it wants to get to know you. Especially with small dogs, it might help to get down on one knee to seem less threatening.

For context, I consider the dog to be one of mankind's greatest achievements.
 
Dogs are generally docile around small children so it's recommended to use a small child to test first



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Flip that.....how reliable is a dog's instinct when they first meet a person? I think dogs know immediately when they meet you if you like dogs or not. They respond to that. Then they positively respond to you...or not.
Yep. I walk quite a bit, and often in the woods. When I come upon a dog, I adopt the attitude that it is the greatest thing that has happened to me in my entire life. Most dogs respond favorably to that.

If they do not, if they continue walking with heads down and grimaces on their faces, that's when I know to stand down.

But, usually, it is effective for me. Earlier this year, three HUGE dogs on a walk with their two owners came upon me. I went into happy mode, and they (the dogs) came at me to compete with each other to give my face a tongue bath. I could see right away as they were coming at me that this was their intent, and laughed out loud. Their owners, on the other hand, were a bit tentative, and neither gave me a tongue bath.
 
Once as a kid, I was cutting through a couple of back yards on my way home. I came across a German Shepherd laying outside of his doghouse. He saw me, started wagging his tail and did not have a menacing look. I started to approach him and, out of the blue, he flew at me in a rage. Luckily, he was on a chain and I was only an inch or two out of his reach. Probably the only time I completely misjudged a dog. I swear to this day that he was baiting me. Not disparaging shepherds. When raised right, they're loving, smart and very loyal. To the OP, I'd also add my experience with Rottweiler's has been that they look bad ass, but are big babies.

I love all dogs until given a reason not to and will go out of my way to make friends with virtually any dog. If given the time, I believe I can win them all over. It's been my experience that small dogs are less predictable than large dogs. If you're apprehensive when meeting a new dog, especially one that seems skittish, my recommendations are to offer the back of your hand for him/her to sniff (If he's ever been abused, an open palm may be seen as a threat), calmly talk to it like you'd talk to a toddler, look him/her in the eye and smile, remove your hat and sunglasses (again, if it's ever been abused, it may associate you with its abuser) and, most importantly, let the dog decide how quickly it wants to get to know you. Especially with small dogs, it might help to get down on one knee to seem less threatening.

For context, I consider the dog to be one of mankind's greatest achievements.
Dogs on a chain are likely to become territorial and can be aggressive
 
Hopefully you can tell by the dog's body language and breed characteristics. My rough collie would bark at any stranger coming to the door until I greeted them. Then he knew that they were okay. That is the behavior is totally in sync with a dog bred to be a guard dog that is naturally wary of strangers.
My Sheltie was the same way. Once I let them in, she was all over them and wouldn’t let them stop petting her.
 
As a land surveyor, I often run into dogs that I don't know. Most times you can tell if you're going to have any problem with the dog, and that is actually pretty rare. The worst ones are little dogs owned by older ladies. They are never to be trusted.
 
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