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The Greatest Gift of Wrestling

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We're in the spring lull period now where there's no current competition worthy of long threads. However, some of the existing threads have evolved into wonderful stories about great people in the past as well as some good PA wrestling history. That's far more refreshing than reading the garbage that is constantly being fed to us by the corporate media and loosely called "news." Consequently, I thought this would be a good time to write a post about what I think is the greatest gift that wrestling brings to everyone who gets involved.

In many online web sites and forums, you'll often read articles and posts about how wrestling develops character, perseverence, mental discipline, etc. While all of these benefits are definitely there, I think there is another gift from being involved in wrestling that outweighs all of them. That gift is friendships.

When I mentally review all of the people in my life with whom I have or had close relationships, I don't think I'm exaggerating to say that my closest friends were almost all people that I met through wrestling. Some of them were people I grew up with. Others were my teammates through high school and college. And even after I graduated, I continued to be involved with local high school programs as a volunteer assistant coach. Those episodes brought me in contact with new people and over time they also became my good friends.

One of my best experiences occured when my wife and I moved to Bonney Lake WA due to a job transfer. We moved there primarily because a good professional opportunity had become available, and wrestling never entered into my decision process. However, when we got there, it turned out that the local area had some of the best high school teams in the state and my next door neighbor's two sons were both involved in the local high school program. One day soon after we moved in, their coach came by for a birthday party so I had a chance to meet him. He invited me to come to their practices. I didn't do so immediately, but when I watched some of the guys competing, I saw very quickly that they had been very well coached. So I figured that if I got involved with their program, it would be a good way to establish a connection with people in the community. That choice turned out to be a gold mine. I can't say enough good things about the people, the community and the school district. We've moved on since that time, but I still keep in close contact with a lot of the people who live there. I also made it a point to drive a few hours to CA high school tournaments where Bonney Lake had come to compete.

Since I've joined this forum, I've gotten to know quite a few people by their online personalities. The only person I've actually met live is 1AA who lives in Eastern WA. We met at one of the Las Vegas Men's Open tournaments, and after talking for a few minutes, I realized who he was. Even though my connection to everyone else here is only through text messages, I feel I've had enough communication with everyone to consider them a new group of friends.

So looking back over my own wrestling history, that's by far my biggest and best takeaway from the sport. But I'll bet that if you were to ask any of the guys who have won the big medals at either the NCAA tournament or even the Olympics, they would definitely consider the friendships they made over the years through wrestling to be a big part of their life.

Well that's my initial input on this subject. Anyone else care to give their thoughts?
 
We're in the spring lull period now where there's no current competition worthy of long threads. However, some of the existing threads have evolved into wonderful stories about great people in the past as well as some good PA wrestling history. That's far more refreshing than reading the garbage that is constantly being fed to us by the corporate media and loosely called "news." Consequently, I thought this would be a good time to write a post about what I think is the greatest gift that wrestling brings to everyone who gets involved.

In many online web sites and forums, you'll often read articles and posts about how wrestling develops character, perseverence, mental discipline, etc. While all of these benefits are definitely there, I think there is another gift from being involved in wrestling that outweighs all of them. That gift is friendships.

When I mentally review all of the people in my life with whom I have or had close relationships, I don't think I'm exaggerating to say that my closest friends were almost all people that I met through wrestling. Some of them were people I grew up with. Others were my teammates through high school and college. And even after I graduated, I continued to be involved with local high school programs as a volunteer assistant coach. Those episodes brought me in contact with new people and over time they also became my good friends.

One of my best experiences occured when my wife and I moved to Bonney Lake WA due to a job transfer. We moved there primarily because a good professional opportunity had become available, and wrestling never entered into my decision process. However, when we got there, it turned out that the local area had some of the best high school teams in the state and my next door neighbor's two sons were both involved in the local high school program. One day soon after we moved in, their coach came by for a birthday party so I had a chance to meet him. He invited me to come to their practices. I didn't do so immediately, but when I watched some of the guys competing, I saw very quickly that they had been very well coached. So I figured that if I got involved with their program, it would be a good way to establish a connection with people in the community. That choice turned out to be a gold mine. I can't say enough good things about the people, the community and the school district. We've moved on since that time, but I still keep in close contact with a lot of the people who live there. I also made it a point to drive a few hours to CA high school tournaments where Bonney Lake had come to compete.

Since I've joined this forum, I've gotten to know quite a few people by their online personalities. The only person I've actually met live is 1AA who lives in Eastern WA. We met at one of the Las Vegas Men's Open tournaments, and after talking for a few minutes, I realized who he was. Even though my connection to everyone else here is only through text messages, I feel I've had enough communication with everyone to consider them a new group of friends.

So looking back over my own wrestling history, that's by far my biggest and best takeaway from the sport. But I'll bet that if you were to ask any of the guys who have won the big medals at either the NCAA tournament or even the Olympics, they would definitely consider the friendships they made over the years through wrestling to be a big part of their life.

Well that's my initial input on this subject. Anyone else care to give their thoughts?
Best use of paragraph breaks in a long post ever.
 
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1. 1 Corinthians 12:4–6​


Spirit . . . Lord . . . God. A Trinitarian reference to the Holy Spirit, the Lord Jesus, and God the Father (cf. 2 Cor. 13:14). The most common pattern in the NT Epistles is to refer to God the Father with the word “God” (Gk. Theos, which is the normal Septuagint translation for the OT Hb. ’Elohim, “God”) and to refer to God the Son with the word “Lord” (Gk. Kyrios, which is used in the Septuagint over 6,000 times to translate the OT Hb. name YHWH, “Yahweh” or “LORD”). Therefore both names are evidence of deity. The diversity of divine persons within the unity of the Trinity should be reflected in the diversity of gifts within the unity of the body of Christ in Corinth. (See also Eph. 4:3–16.) Therefore Paul wants the Corinthian church to understand how their unity can be enhanced by appreciating the variety of gifts God has given to them.

2. 1 Corinthians 12:7–11​


utterance of wisdom . . . utterance of knowledge. Some understand these to be miraculous gifts (“word of wisdom” and “word of knowledge”) by which a speaker is given supernatural “wisdom” or “knowledge” from God to impart to a situation. Others take these to be more “natural” gifts: the ability to speak wisely or with knowledge into a situation. The Greek expressions (logos sōphias and logos gnōseōs) occur nowhere else in the Bible, and Paul does not give any further explanation, so it is difficult to be certain. But since Paul already has a different, broader term that he uses to refer to speech based on something that God suddenly brings to mind, the second view seems preferable.

faith. This is not the faith that all Christians have in Christ, since Paul implies that some Christians have it and others do not. It is probably a special endowment of faith for accomplishing some task (see 13:2; cf. Acts 14:9; James 5:15). gifts of healing. Both terms are plural (lit., “gifts of healings”), suggesting that different people may be gifted regarding different kinds of healing.

miracles. Probably the ability to work various kinds of miracles, including but not limited to healing (see Acts 8:13; Acts 14:8–10; Acts 19:11–12; Rom. 15:19; Gal. 3:5; Heb. 2:4). prophecy. The word “prophecy” (Gk. prophēteia) as used by Paul in 1 Corinthians refers generally to speech that reports something that God spontaneously brings to mind or “reveals” to the speaker but which is spoken in merely human words, not words of God. Therefore it can have mistakes and must be tested or evaluated (see 1 Cor. 14:29; 1 Thess. 5:19–21). An alternative view of this gift, held by some, is that it involves speaking the very words of God, with authority equal to the OT prophets and equal to the word of Scripture. A third view is that it is very similar to the gifts of preaching or teaching. This gift is widely indicated throughout the NT churches (see 1 Cor. 11:2–5; 1 Cor. 12:28–29; 1 Cor. 13:2, 8–9; 1 Cor. 14:1–40; Acts 2:17–18; Acts 11:27–28; Acts 19:6; Acts 21:9–11; Rom. 12:6; 1 Thess. 5:19–21; 1 Tim. 1:18; 4:14; 1 John 4:1). Prophecy is used to build up, encourage, and comfort the gathered community (1 Cor. 14:3). Prophecy is also used evangelistically to disclose the secrets of the hearts of unbelievers and lead them to worship God (1 Cor.14:24–25). Because God used this gift to build up the Christian community, Paul urged the Corinthians to value it highly (1 Cor.14:4–5, 39). distinguish between spirits. A special ability to distinguish between the influence of the Holy Spirit and the influence of demonic spirits in a person’s life. Those who claim to speak under the Spirit’s prompting could be mistaken, and so God also gives gifts of discernment to the Christian community (1 Cor.14:29; 1 Thess. 5:20–21; 1 John 4:1–3). tongues. Speech in a language the speaker does not know, and that sometimes does not follow the patterns of any known human language (1 Cor. 13:1). Paul sees this gift as a means of expressing prayer or praise to God (1 Cor.14:2, 1 Cor. 14:14–17, 28; cf. Acts 10:46) in which the speaker’s human spirit is praying even though the speaker does not understand the meaning (see 1 Cor. 14:2, 11, 13–19, 23). The normally unintelligible nature of tongues makes their interpretation necessary if the gathered community is to be edified by them (1 Cor. 14:1–25). Paul probably placed the last two gifts at the end of the list because an overemphasis on tongues in Corinth had led to the neglect of those with other gifts (1 Cor.12:14–26). See also 1 Cor.12:28 and 1 Cor. 12:30. Bible-believing Christians disagree as to whether the gift of tongues ceased after the apostolic age of the early church, or whether tongues is a spiritual gift that should continue to be practiced today. In either case, there is no indication that speaking in tongues is a normative requirement that all Christians must experience.

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3. Romans 12:4–8​


The diversity and unity of the church is illustrated by comparison to the human body. Just as the human body is one with many members (lit., body parts, limbs), so the church is united though it is composed of many members. On the theme of the church as the body of Christ, see also 1 Corinthians 12 and Eph. 4:4, 12–16.

The variety of the body is evident from the various gifts God has given the church. On the gift of prophecy, see notes on Acts 21:4; 21:10–11; 1 Cor. 12:10; Eph. 2:20; 1 Thess. 5:20–21. in proportion to our faith. Paul instructs prophets to speak only when they have faith or confidence that the Holy Spirit is truly revealing something to them, and not to exceed the faith that God has given them by trying to impress others.

Christians should concentrate upon and give their energies to the gifts God has given them, whether in serving others, teaching God’s Word patiently, or in exhortation and encouragement in the things of God. Thus Paul spotlights three attitudes necessary in exercising particular gifts: (1) those who have a special gift of helping others financially should never give grudgingly but always generously; (2) those who lead often have no one to whom they are accountable, and hence they must beware of laziness; (3) those who show mercy to the hurting must not grow weary but continue to minister with gladness.

4. 1 Corinthians 12:26–31a​


The purpose of the gifts is to build one another up and to care for one another, not to flaunt one’s own spirituality.

First . . . second . . . third . . . then seems to be a ranking of importance or benefit to the church, with apostles being primary and then prophecy and teaching also contributing greatly to building others up. Teachers, helping, and administrating do not appear in the list in 1 Cor.12:8–10, and helping and administrating do not show up in the rhetorical questions in 1 Cor.12:29–30, indicating that the different lists are representative rather than exhaustive.

5. Ephesians 4:11–16​


Christ gives specific spiritual gifts to people in the church whose primary mission is to minister the Word of God (Eph.4:12). Regarding prophets, different views on the nature of the gift of prophecy in the NT affect one’s understanding of this verse. Since the Greek construction here is different from Eph. 2:20 and Eph.3:5, some see this verse as a broader reference to the gift of prophecy generally in the NT church, rather than a reference to the “foundational” prophets mentioned in Eph.2:20 and Eph.3:5. From the Greek word for the “gospel” (euangelion), evangelists denotes people like Philip and Timothy who proclaimed the gospel (Acts 21:8; 2 Tim. 4:5). shepherds (or “pastors” [ESV footnote]). In the OT these are kings and judges (2 Sam. 5:2; 7:7). In the NT, elders “shepherd” by watching over and nurturing the church (Acts 20:28; 1 Pet. 5:1–2). There is some uncertainty as to whether “shepherds and teachers” refers here to two different ministry roles or functions, or whether the reference is to a single “shepherd-teacher” ministry role, since Paul uses a different Greek conjunction at the end of the list, joining the two nouns more closely together than the other nouns in the list. If “teachers” are a separate group, they can be understood as a special branch of shepherds (overseers, elders) responsible for instruction in God’s Word (cf. 1 Tim. 5:17).

Those church leaders with various gifts (Eph.4:11) are to equip the saints (all Christians) so that they can do the work of ministry. All Christians have spiritual gifts that should be used in ministering to one another (1 Cor. 12:7, 11; 1 Pet. 4:10).

The diversity of gifts serves to bring about the unity of Christ’s people. Mature manhood extends the body metaphor used earlier for the church and contrasts with “children” in the next verse (see Heb. 5:11–14). Some people think that the learning of doctrine is inherently divisive, but it is people who divide the church, whereas the knowledge of the Son of God (both knowing Christ personally and understanding all that he did and taught) is edifying and brings about “mature manhood” when set forth in love (Phil. 3:10). The work of the gifted ministers (Eph. 4:11) was to proclaim and teach the word centered on Christ rather than on speculative or eccentric teachings of their own (cf. 1 Cor. 2:2). measure. Christ Jesus is the standard of the maturity to which the church must aspire. Christ’s fullness is the full expression of his divine and human perfection (see Eph. 1:23; 3:19; Col. 1:19; 2:9).

joint. Paul continues the body metaphor to describe the church’s maturity. Every member (i.e., every believer, viewed as a limb, or unit, in Christ’s body) plays a crucial role in this growth. in love. There is no Christian maturity or true Christian ministry without love (1 Corinthians 13), and every act of love in the name of Christ is valued and remembered by him, as each part is working properly (illustrated in Eph. 4:25–32; cf. Matt. 25:31–43; 26:6–13).

6. 1 Corinthians 1:4–8​


Paul is thankful that God has richly blessed the Corinthians with speech, knowledge, and spiritual gifts. Despite some problems with these blessings (1 Cor.8:1–3, 10; 1 Cor.12:12–31; 1 Cor. 14:1–40), he considers them gifts from God.

enriched in him. In 1 Cor.4:8 Paul will say that the Corinthians’ spiritual riches have led to an inappropriate pride. Paul’s thankfulness here shows that the problem lay not with the gifts God had given them but with the way the Corinthians used those gifts. The cure is found in a healthy dose of gratitude (1 Cor.4:7). The Corinthians valued especially the gifts of speech and knowledge (see 1 Cor.8:1–3, 10; 1 Cor.12:8; 1 Cor.13:2; 1 Cor.14:1–40), but because they had used these gifts in wrong and improper ways, the exercise of the gifts led to disunity (1 Cor.8:1–3; 1 Cor.12:29–30; 1 Cor.14:4)

When Paul tells them, “you were enriched” in Christ “in all speech and all knowledge” (1 Cor.1:5) so that you are not lacking in any gift, he implies that many spiritual gifts are “enrichments” of speaking abilities, knowledge, or skills that people had before they became Christians. As you wait for the revealing of our Lord Jesus Christ implies that spiritual gifts are given as temporary provisions until Christ returns (see 1 Cor.13:10).

7. 1 Peter 4:10–11​


All believers have received at least one spiritual gift from God, and they are not to hoard these gifts but use them faithfully as stewards of God’s grace (cf. 1 Corinthians 12–14).

whoever speaks . . . whoever serves. Peter divides spiritual gifts generally into speaking and serving gifts (for more detailed lists, see Rom. 12:6–8; 1 Cor. 12:8–10, 28–30; and Eph. 4:11). Those who speak must not propound their own ideas but faithfully declare God’s words (oracles). Similarly, those who serve must not depend on their own strength but draw their strength from God, so that God alone may be glorified through Jesus Christ.

8. 2 Timothy 1:6–7​


fan into flame the gift of God. Paul does not explain what this gift is, which allows the principle here to be seen as applicable to all kinds of spiritual gifts. Such gifts tend to fade in strength when they are not used and encouraged. The laying on of my hands may refer to Timothy’s ordination. This passage focuses on Paul’s part in that event, whereas 1 Tim. 4:14 mentions the involvement of “the council of elders.”
spirit. Probably the Holy Spirit. fear. The Greek (deilia) in extrabiblical literature refers to one who flees from battle, and has a strong pejorative sense referring to cowardice. Boldness, not cowardice, is a mark of the Spirit (see Prov. 28:1; Acts 4:31).

9. 1 Corinthians 14:1–5​


earnestly desire. Even in the midst of some misuse of spiritual gifts, Paul does not say to discontinue their use but to seek after them all the more, reflecting his conviction that these are given by God for the good of the church (cf. 1 Cor.12; 1 Cor.12:31).

Speaks not to men but to God indicates that Paul views tongues as a form of prayer and praise, but in a language that the speaker does not understand. No one understands him implies that Paul expected tongues in Corinth in most cases to be unknown languages, unlike the evangelistic situation in Acts 2:1–13.

The one who speaks in a tongue builds up himself because his spirit is praying to God even though he does not understand what is being said (see 1 Cor.14: 2, 14, 28).

I want you all to speak in tongues. Paul’s desire to set boundaries on speaking in tongues does not mean that he thinks the Corinthians should abandon this gift. It builds up the individual who has it (v. 4), and, if interpreted, builds up the church. (See also 1 Cor.14:13, 18, 27, 39.) Still, prophecy is greater because, as intelligible speech that needs no interpretation, it is more directly useful to the church. Unless someone interprets implies that if there is an interpreter, then prophecy and tongues have equal value, since then they would both be understandable. But equal value does not imply that the gifts have the same function, for prophecy is based on something that God suddenly brings to the mind of the speaker, and thus is communication from God to man (1 Cor.14:25, 30; cf. Acts 11:28; 21:4, 10–11), while tongues is ordinarily prayer or praise from man to God (1 Cor. 14:2, 14–17, 28; cf. Acts 10:46).

10. 1 Corinthians 13:1–3​


tongues . . . angels. Tongues is probably the first gift mentioned because the Corinthians have used and emphasized it without love (1 Cor. 12:21).

deliver up my body to be burned. As Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego did (Dan. 3:19–23; Heb. 11:34). Love cannot be measured by actions alone; motives must be assessed to determine what is loving (see 1 Cor. 4:4–5)
Ezekiel 23 20 is still my favorite all these years later.
 
Best use of paragraph breaks in a long post ever.
See one of my other posts. I went to Mercersburg Academy and got a first class HS education there. Writing and proper use of grammar were pounded into us pretty hard, so I did learn a few things about writing. 👍
 
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You are such a child. Please go away. Biggest troll ever.
I think he was actually just trying to break the record for the longest post on this forum. However, I hope he’s not trying to compare my dissertation to Paul’s incredible letters. That’s like comparing a doodle in a notebook to Rembrandt.

As for Hawky42, there’s one immortal piece of advice that he can use:

HE NEEDS TO HIT THE WEIGHTS, HARD!!!!
 
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