When you're young, you go to weddings and help people move;;When you're older, you.....

[Mack_Daddy]

...go to funerals and help people move. The former is positive and optimistic; the latter is negative and pessimistic.

I don't like getting older.

 

[androcles]

...before the age of 40 you feed and clothe your children...
...after the age of 80 they are expected to do the same for you...

 

[fairgambit]

Women look their best at weddings. Men at funerals.

 

[artsandletters]

I'd rather go to a funeral than a wedding. At least you know the suffering is over. ( somebody's joke but I forget who).