For Iowa, the only choices are Gabe or Kueter (no RS, elite level talent, etc). I could see Gabe being frustrated with the way they've kind of jerked him around with the weight classes and stuff, but Gabe's dad posts on GIA all the time talking up how much they love Iowa, and he seems like a stand-up guy, so I think if they were about to bolt, he wouldn't be posting there. Kueter is an Iowa boy who is involved in both the football and wrestling programs, so it doesn't make sense for him, either. I guess it could be PK, who may be interested in transferring, especially if they are going to go with Nelson because of nepotism over the better wrestler, but he falls way short of "Suriano level, top 3" that was mentioned, although anyone with AA potential at any level is a big add for them.
For PSU, if we lose one guy, that's just water off a duck's back. There aren't enough spots for all of the hammers we have in the pipeline. We're going to lose multiple of them, not just one.
The bigger question is why anyone would go to Rutgers? For Suriano, it was homesickness. Are any of the people we're discussing Jersey boys? Maybe it's Robbie Howard. LOL.