Great write-ups, all! I don't usually talk about my time in the sport but what the heck.
Wrestled for 15 years, starting in 3rd grade through college. My wrestling epiphany came when I was 11 years old and started the year 10-2, only to lose my last 8 matches without scoring a point. My Dad (who was a wrestling coach) sat me down and told me I needed to decide whether I really wanted to wrestle or was just doing it for him. He said I should only continue if it was something I wanted to do and really enjoyed doing. It was at that moment that I dedicated myself to the sport and set a goal to be an All-American.
The next year I took third in PA Junior Wrestling (PJW) and was a PJW state champ at 14 years old. But HS was not good to me. I had a friend who was a year older and we were pretty much the same weight but he was just a bit better. Freshman year we were both at 98 lbs so I wrestled JV with a few spot starts. Beat several kids who went to districts but didn't get to wrestle at the end of the year. Soph year I went 23-2-1 in the regular season but my friend dropped and I went up in weight and lost in districts to kids who had all dropped from the weight above that! I just wasn't big or strong enough to complete with them. My junior year I went 20-0 in the regular season at my best weight but my friend dropped and so I tried to make the weight below that and it was a disaster. I had no strength, was starving myself to death, and wrestled like it. Lost in districts to a kid I'd beaten 3 times. Senior year I was cruising along at 25-1 when I injured my ankle and hobbled through end of year tournaments without practicing for about a month. After winning Districts, my ankle ballooned up and spent all week trying to rehab it enough to wrestling on Friday in Regionals. Made it to states but lost in the first round by a point to the kid who took 3rd. Back then you didn't get to wrestle back if you lost that early. Did beat 4 PA state champs during HS and 10+ state place winners. Won 89 matches in 3 years as a starter with 1/3 of them by fall.
Was recruited as a walk-on at PSU and wrestled on the team for three years. Unfortunately the wrestlers at my weight, the weight below me, and the weight above me combined for 7 All-American awards so I wrestled mostly in tournaments and exhibition matches. Like a lot of kids at that age, I was not mature enough to put my best foot forward in either the classroom or the mat during that period of time. The best thing Coach Lorenzo ever did was tell me if I didn't get my act together, he wasn't going to let me be on the team anymore. That'll whip you into shape quick! I completely turned everything around and started studying and training the right way soon thereafter. There's a 100 stories like this about Coach Lorenzo as he was a special coach and really cared for his athletes as people, not just wrestlers. Because I wasn't starting, my real season was summer freestyle tournaments. Was United States Wrestling Federation (USWF) PA state runner-up and a Keystone State Games champ. Finished fifth in the National AAU Freestyle Championships back when AAU was still a thing. Was a 3x AAU Mid-Atlantic regional runner-up too.
Once I got my head on straight, I realized that I wasn't going to achieve my goal of becoming an All-American at PSU given the competition in the room. So I made a really hard decision to transfer and try and realize my dream somewhere else. As school was most definitely my #1 priority by this time, I picked the college based on who had the best department for my major instead of the strength of the wrestling team or division level. Because of this experience, I have the utmost respect for wrestlers when they decide to go elsewhere as it's all about what's best for them. I had a chance to go to either Edinboro or West Virginia but instead chose to transfer to a D3 liberal arts college with a strong academic reputation. In my only year of wrestling eligibility there, I was a D3 All-American and defeated two wrestlers who made the D1 blood round. Also wrestled up a weight in a dual and beat a D3 National Champ.
I mostly agree with those who say you don't have to have wrestled to enjoy / appreciate the sport. I will say, however, that the amount of pressure at any National tournament is unbelievable ... particularly for those who wrestle in the blood round. While it was only D3, I wrestled in the blood round and can honestly say in 30+ years of running my own businesses and negotiating make or
break business deals, no situation has been as stressful and pressure filled as that match. Everything else is a piece of cake! For me, 15 years of dedication to the sport came down to a single, make or break match to become an All-American and I was fortunate enough to win. That's pressure!
I can honestly say the sport of wrestling has molded me into the person I am today. Set goals, focus on improvement, and have fun have been my motto in business, life, and coaching and they have served me well. #WeAre