One, because sexual contact between males was a concept which was totally foreign to him.
I don't doubt this at all. Actually I think this is highly likely. I think someone, possibly Jay, has even hinted that this is the case.
One, because sexual contact between males was a concept which was totally foreign to him.
In addition to other replies regarding your lack of knowledge regarding the definition of "fondling", you should also consider Joe's background. He had a strong Catholic upbringing and was driven to do well academically. It wasn't a case of him hanging out with a wild crowd in Brooklyn and living a life of debauchery. He was an English Literature major so he was obviously familiar with the language. I'm sure some of that classic English literature contained the word "fondling" and I'd be willing to bet it was never used with a sexual connotation.
After Sandusky hit the fan, I read an interview with Joe in which he talked about his confusion over men having sex. He said he didn't get the concept and didn't know it was even possible. That certainly doesn't mean he's stupid but it does show the upbringing and values shared by many people from his generation. There is a certain amount naivety about sexual matters since sex was considered a personal thing. Nowadays you can log onto the internet and read about any variety of sexual topics. "Fondling" has taken on a sexual connotation today just as "gay" has changed from being joyful to being homosexual.
With all that in mind, I can imagine Joe's confusion after MM came to him regarding Sandusky. MM admitted he gave Joe a watered down version of what he saw. Nobody on this message board knows what exactly MM told Joe but I'll humor you and concede MM may have told Joe that he saw Sandusky "fondling" a boy. At that time Joe wouldn't have made a sexual connection. One, because sexual contact between males was a concept which was totally foreign to him. And two, his idea of "fondling" wasn't the same as the modern definition with sexual overtones. Joe testified he could see MM was upset so he got him in touch with people up the chain. After MM left the office Joe likely was wondering what the hell MM was so upset about.
I seriously doubt that
puhlez.. the guy coached football players for umpteen years. no doubt there were training and educational sessions involving homosexuality which he attended in those decades. to believe he never even heard of male to male sex is pure fantasy.
Good Lord...Maybe the whole shower thing was just made up from nothing at all.