I think Mike after talking to his dad and told him he saw nothing but JS in the shower with the child, on his drive home started to then let the "sounds" he heard start to cloud his memory. I think you can see when Dranov asked him what he saw and he then kept focusing on what he heard. I think over time his brain started to fill in what he heard and that became to cloud his memory with what he saw.
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5 Mind Blowing Ways Your Memory Plays Tricks On You
Everybody will tell you that memory can't be trusted. When they say that, of course, what they mean is other people's memories can't be trusted. We don't like to think that everything we know about the world is based on a deeply flawed and illogical storage system.
We're not talking about being bad at matching faces with names here. Science has found that your memory is basically a pathological liar, just making it up as it goes along. For instance ...
5. Other People Can Manipulate Your Memory With Repetition
There was quite a stir recently when it turned out that
a growing number of people believe the President of the USA is a Muslim. Regardless of whether or not you intend to vote for the man, this is just an issue of fact, and the fact is that at various times we have all seen video clips of Mr. Obama drinking alcohol, eating pork, getting sworn in on a Christian Bible and sitting in a Christian church.
But according to the Pew Research Center, for almost 20% of the people they polled, those memories have been trumped by the mere act of hearing commentators assert that Obama is a Muslim, over and over and over.
You can laugh at them all you want, but that technique works on all of us, to various degrees. Nobody likes to think of themselves as susceptible to advertisements, or propaganda, or liars. Too bad. It's just part of the mechanical workings of our brain: when we hear a statement enough, we'll start to believe it.
They call it the
"Illusion of Truth" effect. We judge things to be true based on how often we hear them. We like familiarity, and repeating a lie often enough makes it familiar to us, the repetition making it fall right in with all of the things our memory tells us are true about the world. Every advertiser or propagandist knows this. Humans are social animals, and there is a primal part of us that still says, "If other members of the tribe who I feel close to believe this,
there must be something to it."
And no, simply showing us the correct information doesn't fix it. Quite the opposite: research shows that once we've seized on an incorrect piece of information,
exposure to the facts either doesn't change what we think, or makes us even more likely to hold onto the false information. You can guess why this is: our self-image triumphs over all. It's more important that we continue to think of ourselves as infallible than admit we're wrong. This is how people continue to believe
admitted hoaxes after they have been proven to be fake.
But wait, here's the best part: Most of you will still think of this as something
other people do, and that you of course are the unbiased observer who can clearly see their stupidity. There is a reason for this, too. They call it the
Bias Blind Spot. The biases in your system cripple even your ability to examine your own biases. So just now, when you thought to yourself, "Ha, I've caught myself doing that! But at least I'm not as nutty as those 'Obama is a Muslim' nutjobs!", you just saw your own bias at work. You're trying to examine a broken mechanism with a broken mechanism. It's like trying to perform surgery on your own ass, with a scalpel that is itself clenched in your ass.
4. Your Brain is Half-Blind
Most people seem to think of the brain as an incredibly complex machine that can do amazing things, but, at least when it comes to processing visual information, your brain is actually quite lazy, filling in what you are seeing with generic information it figures is probably there. This half-assed method of construction is known, in technical terms, as the Teamster approach [citation needed]. The best and most ridiculous example of this comes from the
Invisible Gorilla study:
In the study volunteers were asked to watch the above video of two basketball teams and count how many passes there were. Try it.
During the video a person in a gorilla costume walks across the court.
Half the people who watch that video don't notice the gorilla. All of them saw it, but they didn't know they had seen it. When they watched the tape again after being told there was a gorilla they all saw it, but still had no recollection of seeing it before. Because we are told to focus on the ball, our brain immediately makes assumptions about everything else in the scene and lazily fills it in (in this case, it assumes an empty, gorilla-free room), whether it's accurate or not.
Likewise, when you walk into an office, you will notice the hot receptionist, but you won't notice what her phone looks like, what color her chair is, or the fact that she has twenty glass cat figurines displayed on her desk. You saw all of that, in the sense that the light reflecting off all of those objects hit your eye, but without focusing on it you won't actually remember any of it. If pressed to remember it later, you'll just fill in generic images.
What is surprising about the above experiment was that even when those unnoticed details contained something unexpected, striking or even shocking (such as a rogue gorilla), your brain still just smoothed right over it. "Nothing to see here!"
So take a moment and wonder how many of your life's most striking or world-changing sights have fallen into this black hole of inattention.
3. Your Brain Just Makes Shit Up
If you're unfamiliar with the controversy over so-called repressed memories, hang on, because this is going to be the weirdest thing you read today:
There are two famous cases, involving
Nadean Cool and Beth Rutherford. Cool, despite having a Fonzie worthy name, was convinced by her therapist during regular sessions that she had, among other things, been in a satanic cult, eaten babies, been regularly raped as a child, watched her friend get murdered, and that she had sex with animals. In reality none of that actually happened, yet she was completely convinced that it did. All it took was enough prodding from a therapist insisting that she had merely repressed the memory. The act of inventing the ludicrous scenario from whole cloth felt to her exactly the same as "uncovering" something she had forgotten.
Likewise Beth Rutherford, being treated in this case by a church counselor, was convinced that she had repressed memories of being regularly raped by her father (a clergyman) and was occasionally held down by her mother during the rapes. She even "remembered" having to self-abort on two separate occasions. Medical evidence later on proved that she was actually a virgin until she was 22 years old and that she had never been pregnant. Thus prompting what must have been the most awkward family reunion of all time.
For a while a lot of weight was given to recovering these supposed repressed memories, and it was thought that with the right person guiding you, you could unlock secrets of your past that had been hidden away by years of repression and massive alcohol consumption. More recently people have begun to understand that most repressed memories are
complete bullshit.
How is this even possible? Well, we've all experienced it to different degrees, whether we knew it or not. Have you ever vaguely remembered an interesting fact or story, but couldn't remember whether you saw it on the news, or in a movie, or in a fictional novel? Or sometimes you don't even question it, you might walk around for years citing a statistic to people, not remembering that you actually heard it in a dream, right before you fought a bear made of mashed potatoes. It's so common that the phenomenon has its own word:
Confabulation. Essentially the brain confuses an imagined event with an actual memory.
There are differing theories about exactly why it happens, both boiling down to "the brain kind of sucks." One theory is that we try to fill in gaps to make partial memories make sense (they did experiments where children were asked later to recall a story they had been read, and they found the children tended to alter the story in their memory so that it was more logical than the original). Others think it's just because we are terrible about remembering exactly where we heard something. So memories, particularly vague ones, seem equally valid regardless of whether we're remembering real events or imaginary ones, because the exact origin of a memory is often blurry.
That's how you get weird-ass situations like the fake repressed memories; experiments show that if you run into someone who knew you as a child and they tell you about an event you don't personally remember, you'll construct a memory to match it--even if it didn't actually happen. It's like we have evolved to be able to lie, but still haven't gotten to the point where we can get our minds around the fact that other people do it. As with the first entry, we find our memories are putty in the hands of people who know how to manipulate them.
Speaking of which...
2. Your Memory Can Be Fooled By Manipulated Images
Guy standing in front of a tank at Tiananmen square, as the tanks rolled in to break up the massive demonstrations there. If we hadn't shown you that image, you probably could have drawn it from memory. The line of tanks, the lone guy who had emerged from the crowd to oppose them, etc.
One problem with our memory is that it doesn't work through clear lines of communication. The brain organizes information in such a way that things that are somewhat similar are found near one another. By doing it this way we get the benefit of being able to quickly recall many different things that are associated with whatever stimulus comes our way. If somebody shouts "fire" a whole bunch of relevant things spring your mind at once. Water, fire extinguisher, run, panic, save yourself.
The problem with that system is that it is incredibly easy to manipulate. By skewing a certain stimulus, say a photo, you can trick the brain into thinking that it is remembering something that didn't happen, as long as it is similar to something that could have happened. Or, even better, if it seems like it
should have happened.
Like the famous photo above, with the tanks, and the guy, and the crowd of protestors.
There wasn't a crowd. It was photoshopped in.
Experiments found that when showing people the crowd photo, they were much more likely to remember seeing crowds all the previous times they had seen the photo or video of the event--even though it had absolutely never been there. And for people of a certain age, we're talking about an image they may have seen five thousand times at various points in their life. One plausible change, and all those memories were overwritten.
Slate.com found the same thing; using an elaborate system of showing people fake images and asking them if they remembered them, Slate found that fifteen percent of people that took the survey "remembered" the faked images as real. And when asked if they remembered the event, if not the photo, they had responses up to 68% remembering certain events happening that never happened. Their brains just manufactured the memory spontaneously, because somebody showed them a picture of it. They could photoshop an image from a famous protest to add in riot cops and violence. People would swear they could remember hearing about the riots. It doesn't matter that photo manipulation has literally been around as long as photos have been around. A good fake can set itself up in our memory right alongside the real stuff.
1. Your Mood Skews Your Memories
At least once this month you've heard an old guy, either in life or on your television or on talk radio, talking about how we need to get America back to the good ol' days. You know, the way it was when he was a kid, when everyone was honest and worked hard and people cared about each other. It doesn't matter that the history book say he was growing up during the Holocaust, and it doesn't matter that his grandfather was saying the same thing when he was a boy. This guy
knows he can remember a time when everything was wonderful.
That's
the positivity effect. Happy memories tend to remain in your mind in more vivid details,
while negative memories fade
Now, you probably have a moody friend who is scoffing at this, because he can spout a long list of ways life has wronged them over the ears. Or, maybe you're that friend. That process
doesn't work in people suffering from depression. They tend not to remember vivid details of memory at all, exchanging it instead for just a vague memory of how lame everything is all the time because their life just sucks and stuff.
But your moods affect your memory even if you're not suffering from depression. If you're down,
you're more likely to remember experiences as being bad, or you're more likely to recall the negative parts. When you're sad you don't remember how much fun you had at your birthday party, just that they misspelled your name on the cake.
That's right; you think you're depressed because an endless string of terrible things have happened to you. In reality, it's the opposite. You only perceive that an endless string of terrible things have happened to you because your depressed memory stores them that way. It sounds obvious now, but wait until you're good and depressed and your friends try to convince you it's true.
And, maybe strangest of all, research has found that you are more likely to recall something if you're in the same mood you were in when you stored the memory. If somebody gave you a phone number when you were feeling depressed, and you can't remember now, try making yourself depressed again. It'll come back to you (seriously, they've
done experiments).
So in order to correctly remember something, you have to be in the right mood. You also have to have been in the right mood to store the memory correctly in the first place. And the memory you're storing has to be accurate, and not just some bullshit story someone told you twenty times. We'd give you our fool proof technique for getting every memory right, but why bother? You're not going to remember anyway.
