Financial planning isn't rocket science. For most people, paying an advisor isn't needed. Much of it is just common sense, a lot of which has already been posted. Examples:
- Learn the difference between "needs" vs. "wants" and spend the money accordingly
- Live below your means at all times.
- Maintain positive cash flow, always try to save something regardless of income. It's possible if you scrutinize expenses. Many consider expensive smartphone and cable bills to be "needs." These are "wants" and when money is tight they should be considered for cancellation or at least a reduction in service to save money.
- Stay out of "bad debt"' like credit cards. Mortgages, reasonable car loans, college loans are OK but make sure to put enough down to avoid ending up "upside-down" in terms of what you owe vs. the value of the item.
- Prioritize where to put savings. My suggestions is 1. Emergency Fund, 2. 401k to get company match (free money!), 3. Pay off high-interest debt, 4. Max out IRA, 5. Max out 401k, 6. Additional investments (e.g., low expense ratio index funds).
- Set savings goals and don't be afraid to spend some money when the goals are met (e.g., vacations). If you save everything and don't spend on yourself once in a while you'll be miserable. Any financially stable person should be able to spoil themselves here and there, just keep it under control and don't let it detract for your larger savings goals.
- Use credit cards to your advantage, if you are able. Spend only what you can pay off every month and max out on free credit card benefits like travel miles, cash back, etc.
Opposites do attract and make for a stronger healthier Union than two "like-minded" mates, provided each partner is willing the listen and learn from the other.
If you are in a relationship with an "opposite" in terms of financial planning that sounds like a recipe for disaster. I'm all for diversity and differing opinions, but major differences in finances could result in massive repercussions. What if you marry someone that spends all of your savings and can't stay out of credit card debt? Disastrous possibilities. I'll stick to people that are fiscally responsible.
5. Minimize your mortgage payment. Try to get by with a 15 year loan. Never take out a 30 year mortgage.
I disagree. I personally suggest taking out a 30 year and paying extra, enough to pay it off in 15 years. This gives you the benefit of the 15 year payoff, albeit with slightly higher interest, but it also leaves flexibility in case something unexpected happens and you need that extra money. Also, in some situations and locations it may actually be more reasonable to rent rather than buying a home.