My wife and I are thinking about buying a lot and building a new house. I know that you can buy an existing house for less than you can build one, but my wife and I want to have the house the way we want, and if we have to remodel an existing house then it's going to cost as much as building new.
My question is what design features or "character" elements have you really appreciated/enjoyed, without spending a ton of money on them and/or had the best ROI? For example: adding an extra course of block in the basement foundation to have a full 8' ceiling in finished basement, having a single switch that turns on all exterior lights, etc.
Conversely, are there any design features or "character" elements that you felt were a waste of money?
If you had the chance to build your "forever" home, with money absolutely being an object, what would you do or not do?