True funny story on this topic - you'll get a kick out of it and probably understand it.... Had this class where this really hot girl and her friend were always sitting next to me in class - I usually sat near some people I knew, but no really close friends or even acquaintances were in the class (which happened on occasion due to the size of campus). Anyway, this girl missed a class and asked if she could borrow my notebook so she could take notes from my notes (this was before copying machines were readily available)....and she'd give it back to me the next class. Of course, I said, "yea sure, no problemo....".
So she gives me the notebook back before class the next class and the lecturer starts class, so I open my notebook leafing to a clean page and I notice that this girl has written little notes in the margins of the last couple of written pages and on the top of the first clean page. Without going into too much detail, it basically says, "hey dumb@ss, when are you going to ask me out on a date....?". So I'm reading this as class is starting and this girl (and her friend) are laughing their @ss off as they can see my facial expressions while reading these notes.... After class is over, I'm talking to them as we leave and out in the hallway....and we all have a good laugh at my expense....and of course I invite her to Highway Pizza to meet up and then either go to the movies, Docs or whatever....
Go to Highway Pizza and completely by coincidence Steve Sefter saw me there....and catches me going to the bathroom.....effectively says, "What the heck are you doing with....you know that she's been going out with Ron Heller recently?". So I explained what happened, that I didn't know she was going out with anyone (didn't even know her at all before this class), and that she'd basically asked me out, not vice versa. So he more-or-less says, "look do yourself a favor, have a nice meal with her - there's no harm in that, especially because you have this class together - but don't go out on the town on a date with her". So later when we were done eating, I told her I wasn't feeling very good and would have to give her a rain-check on the night out....she said she was going to stay downtown and find some friends.....and that was that.
Obviously we still saw each other in class and eventually I essentially asked her if she was dating RH.....she basically said, "on occasion, but not exclusively or anything.....he doesn't own me...". I told her to let me know if she ever broke it off with RH.....we remained friendly, but honestly I only saw her a handful of times after that class together (and yes, this transpired after the Fiji fight I witnessed - although I don't think it was the same girl, so my actions are quite understandable for all those who would say they would have done differently!).