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Exactly. For boys. Participation on the part of females in soccer, lacrosse, and volleyball may be up.
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Not sure about that. I didn't develop a good baseball swing until later. But I always had good hand eye coordination. And I could shoot a basketball the first time I ever tried it.I don't know about lacrosse, but you are probably okay with football and wrestling, which aren't so skill intensive. Basketball, baseball, soccer.....you will never make up the skill gap starting in 8th grade to ever be a factor, unless you are a 7 footer in basketball, or a Top 99.999% athlete like a Deon Sanders.
Excellent. You nailed it.ban AAU sports. leave children play multiple sports until they are at least juniors/seniors in high school; then they can begin to specialize.
I don't know about lacrosse, but you are probably okay with football and wrestling, which aren't so skill intensive. Basketball, baseball, soccer.....you will never make up the skill gap starting in 8th grade to ever be a factor, unless you are a 7 footer in basketball, or a Top 99.999% athlete like a Deon Sanders.
OK....so lets say you are "right"No, not in soccer. Smails is absolutely right. Trust me.
Might be a good thing.One of the theories of my wife and I is that the different generations react to the way they were brought up. Kids that were raised in the 60s and 70s by baby boomer parents who (generally) didn't put as much effort and attention into their kids' activities produced a generation who really focused on getting their kids into organized sports and trying to see they reach their full potential. Is the recent drop in youth sports participation a reaction to that by young parents who resented the constant drive to practices all the time? Or is it a function of shrinking middle class disposable income?
One of the theories of my wife and I is that the different generations react to the way they were brought up. Kids that were raised in the 60s and 70s by baby boomer parents who (generally) didn't put as much effort and attention into their kids' activities produced a generation who really focused on getting their kids into organized sports and trying to see they reach their full potential. Is the recent drop in youth sports participation a reaction to that by young parents who resented the constant drive to practices all the time? Or is it a function of shrinking middle class disposable income?
Doesn't say all sports, just football/basketball/soccer/baseball. I would agree that those sports are declining in participation as more kids are playing lacrosse, hockey, wrestling, swimming, etc...the Big 4 sports are going down as more kids who are not elite in those sports are moving to other sports where they can play on the 1st team. And/or those sports are now prevalent enough that they are in more areas. When I was growing up in the 80's, there wasn't lacrosse and swimming and some other sports to play as there were no leagues, now there are leagues in just about every sport to play.
Not sure about that. I didn't develop a good baseball swing until later. But I always had good hand eye coordination. And I could shoot a basketball the first time I ever tried it.
My son plays youth lacrosse, which is the fastest growing sport in the country.
Catch up to playing varsity in high school. My daughter had a wonderful coach in her league soccer, wonderful woman. The parents, they're nothing like what you're describing. I'm an educated man, I knew from day one that my daughter was never going to play college soccer or basketball but I pushed her anyway because she liked it and her teammates were good girls with solid parents. Kids can get in a whole lot of trouble if left to their own devices and playing sports is one way for them to avoid this. Geez.OK....so lets say you are "right"
So what?
They won't "catch up"?
"Catch up" to what...exactly?
They won't get to the level that they will get a college athletic scholarship or play professional sports?
Fine.
Guess what.....that kid with individual coaches, year round camps and travel teams, $1,000 worth of equipment, etc etc etc ain't gonna' play professional sports either.
The ULTRA MINISCULE percentage of kids that will eventually go on to a paid career as an athlete are gonna' get there regardless of whether not some ego-driven parent tries to "Marinovich" the kid or not.....in fact, that kid might very well be BETTER off if the "Marinovich" got the hell out of the way.
In the meantime - to serve the PARENTS and COACHES egos (And, brother, if you don't see who is really behind all this stuff, you haven't been watching.) you got a whole generation of kids that feel that "sports"....even at age 8, 9, or 10....are "work"...and they should be out there "developing" instead of "playing".
LOL.....and folks wonder why kids would rather play video games than engage in these "organized" youth sports.
Lacrosse has been using this tagline since I played in college years ago. It is in no way possibly true today.
MMA or "Competitive Gaming" far and away are growing more quickly.
Lacrosse is a sport which requires a lot of equipment and has latched onto the "get your kid into a good college" train.
LdN
OK....so lets say you are "right"
So what?
They won't "catch up"?
"Catch up" to what...exactly?
They won't get to the level that they will get a college athletic scholarship or play professional sports?
Fine.
Guess what.....that kid with individual coaches, year round camps and travel teams, $1,000 worth of equipment, etc etc etc ain't gonna' play professional sports either.
The ULTRA MINISCULE percentage of kids that will eventually go on to a paid career as an athlete are gonna' get there regardless of whether not some ego-driven parent tries to "Marinovich" the kid or not.....in fact, that kid might very well be BETTER off if the "Marinovich" got the hell out of the way.
In the meantime - to serve the PARENTS and COACHES egos (And, brother, if you don't see who is really behind all this stuff, you haven't been watching.) you got a whole generation of kids that feel that "sports"....even at age 8, 9, or 10....are "work"...and they should be out there "developing" instead of "playing".
LOL.....and folks wonder why kids would rather play video games than engage in these "organized" youth sports.
One of the theories of my wife and I is that the different generations react to the way they were brought up. Kids that were raised in the 60s and 70s by baby boomer parents who (generally) didn't put as much effort and attention into their kids' activities produced a generation who really focused on getting their kids into organized sports and trying to see they reach their full potential. Is the recent drop in youth sports participation a reaction to that by young parents who resented the constant drive to practices all the time? Or is it a function of shrinking middle class disposable income?
Yet summer sports camps are now everywhere -- even a lot of NAIA and D3 type colleges have sports camps. The UNC camps here are packed every year. My take is participation is down for most sports but the level of play and participation by a dedicated segment is up. In other words, you have kids attending 2-3 camps, playing AAU and on their school teams. They are, in general, dedicated kids playing a lot but the overall numbers are down due to the fact that youth sports have become an activity for the very dedicated. Its all part of our ridiculous desire to accelerate the maturation process for children - many are dedicated little adults or so we pretend as a society.
Sincerely,
A guy who has been on this recruiting message board since 1996. I'm part of the problem by funding this year after year increasing adult focus on kids and athletics.
The benefits of playing sports are many.
What that says is it is Americas fastest growing sport in High School over a 5 or 10 year period among sports with more than 10k competitors
That's not what the original post said.
There are probably 15 sports that can make this claim when you add specific standards.
LdN
One of the theories of my wife and I is that the different generations react to the way they were brought up. Kids that were raised in the 60s and 70s by baby boomer parents who (generally) didn't put as much effort and attention into their kids' activities produced a generation who really focused on getting their kids into organized sports and trying to see they reach their full potential. Is the recent drop in youth sports participation a reaction to that by young parents who resented the constant drive to practices all the time? Or is it a function of shrinking middle class disposable income?
Yes, but to make it clear, my daughter never played on a travel team, we never stayed overnight anywhere. She got a whole lot out of it regardless.Jim had a great point in that the kids who are involved in these sort of "intensive" travel teams, in my experience, also have excellent grades and tend to keep their noses clean. It is a great group of kids to have as a peer group for your kid. Besides that, there is the lessons that come with sports involving sacrifice, team work, and hard work. Then there is the benefits of exercise and fitness that often lead to life long good habits, while the rest of America gets fatter and fatter. One other benefit, so many kids struggle with their identity, self worth, confidence....being able to say "I'm a soccer player", "I'm a basketball player" brings with it a sense of pride and accomplishment.
The benefits of playing sports, at a high level if possible, are many.
Nice story.Catch up to playing varsity in high school. My daughter had a wonderful coach in her league soccer, wonderful woman. The parents, they're nothing like what you're describing. I'm an educated man, I knew from day one that my daughter was never going to play college soccer or basketball but I pushed her anyway because she liked it and her teammates were good girls with solid parents. Kids can get in a whole lot of trouble if left to their own devices and playing sports is one way for them to avoid this. Geez.
One of my best memories about my daughter came from a soccer game when she must have been 14. It was played during a sleet storm and I'm standing with another parent waiting out the game; his daughter and mine had been teammates for like five years by then. It's late in the game, couple of minutes left, down two goals, the game's lost. The ball is going out of play and my daughter races 25 yards and slides to save it, her team keeps possession. The guy I'm with looks at me and says, "That's just your daughter, right there." And yeah, it was my daughter, right there.
Yeah, he might. If he is athletic, has good hand eye coordination, and a good coach, it is most certainly possible. What's the most important aspect of hitting from the talent perspective? It's bat speed. If a guy has the ability to generate bat speed, you can teach him to keep the shoulder in, clear the hips, etc. part of the swing. As for ground balls, the single most important aspect of fielding a ground ball is getting behind the ball, and keeping your fanny and head down. A good athlete can learn those things quicker than you believe, I think.So if you've never played baseball before the 8th grade, you think a kid is going to make a high school team? Never faced pitching before, never practiced 1000s of ground balls? There is the saying that you need 10,000 hours of practice to become an expert at something. I'd say you need at least 1,000 hours to become "good", generally speaking.
What that says is it is Americas fastest growing sport in High School over a 5 or 10 year period among sports with more than 10k competitors
That's not what the original post said.
There are probably 15 sports that can make this claim when you add specific standards.
LdN
I grew up in Levittown during its early days and there were a ton of kids around to play with. There were comparatively few teenagers around so it was seldom you'd see cars parked in the street and we'd play street ball for hours. Never once broke a window or dented a car. The only damage that I recall happening was when I'd look back for a long pass and run face first into the light pole and break my glasses, that happened at least twice. I should sue Chuck Jones for stealing my life story.Now as for the little coal town where I grew up, my father knew the parents of every kid I grew up with. Even if he didn't like them, he knew them. He knew who to deal with if there was a problem. Yes, in the summers I hit the back door in the morning, came in for supper and back out till after dark. Those days are gone. I had the same friends all through high school I had since we were little kids. Now you look at that same town today and I have 2 or 3 friends who still live there and the rest have gotten out. Most of the parents have passed away and the towns are full of imports who are there because it's cheap to live and they are close to a number of prisons for visitation purposes. If I lived there with my 7th grader now I still wouldn't allow him the freedom I had as a kid. You don't know the people in town anymore, there is no accountability, and most of them have nothing to lose and don't care about the area traditions or their reputations in the community. The times have changed, that's why the kids don't play anymore. My friends and I stuck together and looked out for each other because we had roots in the community which doesn't seem to be important to most people now. Some are trying, but they fight a losing battle.
Video games? Really? Since nobody else has pointed it out, I will. Video games were invented decades before the cited trend, and not just the video games in the arcade that cost 25 cents per play.
Agreed......and fewer and fewer kids do it.
If we open our eyes, I think we can see many reasons why that is the case.
That's the issue we were discussing......not whether or not kids playing sports is "good".
The times have changed alright. We now have helicopter parents who are afraid of everything and think they have to drive their kids to every activity. Almost all crimes against kids are from family members and are not increasing though reporting it is. If parents really want to protect their kids, they should keep them away from organized sports coaches and get them off the internet.While it is true that kids don't hang together and create their own fun and games anymore, it has a lot to do with changing times.
You can't kick your kid out of the house anymore to go play without some kind of supervision. I live in SC Boro and I know the parents of a lot of my son's friends but they're scattered all over town. There aren't a lot of kids in my neighborhood. There are babies and toddlers and older teenagers and nobody my son's age. My wife or I have to shuttle him around to do things with his friends. Also consider the community is transient. I don't know how many kids will be in my son's 7th grade class this year who were in Kindergarten with him. A handful, maybe.
Now as for the little coal town where I grew up, my father knew the parents of every kid I grew up with. Even if he didn't like them, he knew them. He knew who to deal with if there was a problem. Yes, in the summers I hit the back door in the morning, came in for supper and back out till after dark. Those days are gone. I had the same friends all through high school I had since we were little kids. Now you look at that same town today and I have 2 or 3 friends who still live there and the rest have gotten out. Most of the parents have passed away and the towns are full of imports who are there because it's cheap to live and they are close to a number of prisons for visitation purposes. If I lived there with my 7th grader now I still wouldn't allow him the freedom I had as a kid. You don't know the people in town anymore, there is no accountability, and most of them have nothing to lose and don't care about the area traditions or their reputations in the community. The times have changed, that's why the kids don't play anymore. My friends and I stuck together and looked out for each other because we had roots in the community which doesn't seem to be important to most people now. Some are trying, but they fight a losing battle.
Jim had a great point in that the kids who are involved in these sort of "intensive" travel teams, in my experience, also have excellent grades and tend to keep their noses clean.
No one is saying they can't play organized sport prior to 8th grade. Many including Paterno who was a big advocate for it felt prior to high school sport should all about skill building and fun. Games should be pick up type games. Not the ultra competitive games. The theory is if you focus more on skill building you will develope more skilled athletes rather then just pushing along those who are naturally more athletic. Some guys are late bloomers. Take Jordan for example. He was cut from his high school team. In today ultra sprits world he might have been left behind because he was a late bloomer.So if you've never played baseball before the 8th grade, you think a kid is going to make a high school team? Never faced pitching before, never practiced 1000s of ground balls? There is the saying that you need 10,000 hours of practice to become an expert at something. I'd say you need at least 1,000 hours to become "good", generally speaking.
No one is saying they can't play organized sport prior to 8th grade. Many including Paterno who was a big advocate for it felt prior to high school sport should all about skill building and fun. Games should be pick up type games. Not the ultra competitive games. The theory is if you focus more on skill building you will develope more skilled athletes rather then just pushing along those who are naturally more athletic. Some guys are late bloomers. Take Jordan for example. He was cut from his high school team. In today ultra sprits world he might have been left behind because he was a late bloomer.
THIS.No one is saying they can't play organized sport prior to 8th grade. Many including Paterno who was a big advocate for it felt prior to high school sport should all about skill building and fun. Games should be pick up type games. Not the ultra competitive games. The theory is if you focus more on skill building you will develope more skilled athletes rather then just pushing along those who are naturally more athletic. Some guys are late bloomers. Take Jordan for example. He was cut from his high school team. In today ultra sprits world he might have been left behind because he was a late bloomer.
That's what threw me. I'm sure that a considerable percentage of parents take it too far but speaking from my own experience I haven't seen anything that I would consider to be over the top. Yeah, he's right that my response was off the point, but I really didn't know how to respond to this, completely thrown. Whatever. My daughter worked hard at her sports and eventually tired of them and quit (she was the last cut on her HS basketball team, huge disappointment for her, and, yes, for myself), but overall she gained a great deal out of these experiences. I have a million great little stories about her athletic feats (ha) that brighten my grayest days; I won't share on this thread because, yeah, not the point.Here is your post:
"They won't get to the level that they will get a college athletic scholarship or play professional sports?
Fine. Guess what.....that kid with individual coaches, year round camps and travel teams, $1,000 worth of equipment, etc etc etc ain't gonna' play professional sports either. LOL.....and folks wonder why kids would rather play video games than engage in these "organized" youth sports."
I was listing the benefits of playing high level competitive sports because you inferred the only benefit was if they went on to a professional career.
So if you've never played baseball before the 8th grade, you think a kid is going to make a high school team? Never faced pitching before, never practiced 1000s of ground balls? There is the saying that you need 10,000 hours of practice to become an expert at something. I'd say you need at least 1,000 hours to become "good", generally speaking.
The point is.....and you may or may not agree.....that the benefit is to be gained by PLAYING SPORTS.Here is your post:
"They won't get to the level that they will get a college athletic scholarship or play professional sports?
Fine. Guess what.....that kid with individual coaches, year round camps and travel teams, $1,000 worth of equipment, etc etc etc ain't gonna' play professional sports either. LOL.....and folks wonder why kids would rather play video games than engage in these "organized" youth sports."
I was listing the benefits of playing high level competitive sports because you inferred the only benefit was if they went on to a professional career.
Which is it? Some say kids can't play in cities because there is too much crime and others are saying that the suburbs are too isolated for kids to play.I remember Joe saying that parents should not be involved in youth sports before a certain age. I agree in theory, but Joe was from Brooklyn. Kids in the suburbs often can't get together with other kids without parents driving them. Still, I agree that some kids sports are taken way too seriously. Just let them have fun and learn some good lessons at the same time.
And that's just as I would have expected from your earlier posts.Yes, but to make it clear, my daughter never played on a travel team, we never stayed overnight anywhere. She got a whole lot out of it regardless.