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Update on Malcolm Gladwell's book "Talking to Strangers"

One thing that would be very helpful: Gladwell typically goes on Bill Simmons' podcast when he has something to promote. He and Gladwell are friends. So I imagine he will be on Bill's podcast soon, which is listened to by millions. It will make sense that a significant focus of their conversation would be on the sports story in the book. If Gladwell can make a compelling argument on that pod, and get any kind of concession from Bill, it will be another important step in shifting this narrative, because that will be the largest group yet to hear that the narrative may have been false.

Simmons is symptomatic of the vast majority of sports media people. He will treat Gladwell with respect, but he will not change his mind on this topic. Ever.

The same thing happened when Gladwell first raised the topic with Simmons years ago.

It is over, folks. Which is why my relationship with Penn State University is also over. I only care about their athletic teams now.
 
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Simmons is symptomatic of the vast majority of sports media people. He will treat Gladwell with respect, but he will not change his mind on this topic. Ever.

The same thing happened when Gladwell first raised the topic with Simmons years ago.

It is over, folks. Which is why my relationship with Penn State University is also over. I only care about their athletic teams now.

It’s really funny but not in a ha ha way. The NCAA and our own BOTS accused us of being a cult and only caring about football and that’s exactly what their illegal actions turned many of us into, myself included.
Good job asswipes.
 
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Indeed, it's the OAG who is appealing. I don't think Shapiro can honestly say an appeal is worth pursuing but he has the 2022 gubernatorial election to worry about. He's acting in his own self interest and wants to portray himself as a champion of the people. To that end, he'll spend the peoples' money to make himself look like a tough guy.

I hope he gets the same treatment from PA voters that CoreButt got when he ran for his second term.
 
I thought Cur/Sch were given a max sentence of 23 months - which I would think should cover any "probation" time.... back in June or July of 2017.

Now, I am not sure when that clock would start running (or for sure if the "time" was 23 months)…… but I think the time might be up (or damn near it).

That was my assumption also, but recently I learned that it was a two-year probation post-sentence. It was a total of 4 years somehow, and not in line with what was reported. So now I'm not sure when which clock starts or stops. But the two years since Aug. 2017 is not the end of the line for C&S.

It's already been 8 years too long.
 
Simmons is symptomatic of the vast majority of sports media people. He will treat Gladwell with respect, but he will not change his mind on this topic. Ever.

The same thing happened when Gladwell first raised the topic with Simmons years ago.

It is over, folks. Which is why my relationship with Penn State University is also over. I only care about their athletic teams now.

He’ll listen with respect, not debate anything that Gladwell has to say, and end the interview. After Gladwell leaves the interview, and it is only Simmons on the microphone, Simmons will then take exception to Gladwell’s position. We’ve seen it many times before.
 
Simmons is symptomatic of the vast majority of sports media people. He will treat Gladwell with respect, but he will not change his mind on this topic. Ever.

The same thing happened when Gladwell first raised the topic with Simmons years ago.

It is over, folks. Which is why my relationship with Penn State University is also over. I only care about their athletic teams now.

Is Simmons a Paterno hater? I sometimes get that guy confused with Rick Reilly, whose hatred of Joe was only equaled by his hard on for Lance Armstrong, but I don’t remember Simmons specifically trashing Joe.
 
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So are you finally going to give Ziegler some credit? I seem to remember you disparaging him several times over the years.

Old news, but finally reaching a much, much larger group. Ziegler has been heard mostly by Penn State folks alone. People around the world will read what Gladwell writes.

One thing that would be very helpful: Gladwell typically goes on Bill Simmons' podcast when he has something to promote. He and Gladwell are friends. So I imagine he will be on Bill's podcast soon, which is listened to by millions. It will make sense that a significant focus of their conversation would be on the sports story in the book. If Gladwell can make a compelling argument on that pod, and get any kind of concession from Bill, it will be another important step in shifting this narrative, because that will be the largest group yet to hear that the narrative may have been false.
 
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He’ll listen with respect, not debate anything that Gladwell has to say, and end the interview. After Gladwell leaves the interview, and it is only Simmons on the microphone, Simmons will then take exception to Gladwell’s position. We’ve seen it many times before.
And this is what just about everyone in the media does. They don't want to take you on when you're there to counter. It's only after you've gone they'll dispute because they know their lack of depth of knowledge on just about any subject will be exposed.
 
And this is what just about everyone in the media does. They don't want to take you on when you're there to counter. It's only after you've gone they'll dispute because they know their lack of depth of knowledge on just about any subject will be exposed.

Couldn’t have said it any better.
 
Is Simmons a Paterno hater? I sometimes get that guy confused with Rick Reilly, whose hatred of Joe was only equaled by his hard on for Lance Armstrong, but I don’t remember Simmons specifically trashing Joe.

Simmons bought into the entire BOT narrative regarding Paterno. I wouldn’t say that he has been “a hater”. But he gave no credence to anyone who defended Paterno.

He had Gladwell on his podcast years ago, and Gladwell was sympathetic to Paterno’s “nice guy predator” defense from the Clemente report. Simmons wasn’t buying Gladwell’s take at all, but in a respectful way.
 
The date change makes no practical difference.

- For Sandusky, he was already deemed not guilty on the main V2 charges
- For Paterno, he reported/referred to his superiors ASAP
- For C/S/S, it makes no difference whether anything happened or on what date, they would have had the same responsibilities. Outcome: 2 pleaded to a misdemeanor, one is appealing.

Focusing on the date change is minutia. It does shed light (a little) on MMQ, but his testimony has held (so far) in I think 4 court cases against (generally) fairly good lawyers. I just don't see the date of the V2 incident as being substantial.
That’s crazy. The date change makes it obvious that McQueary didn’t see anything that made him really concerned. Which is 100% consistent w his actions and everyone else’s (Mr. M, Dr D, JVP). Which makes it far more likely that he didn’t tell C/S/S of anything heinous (as C/S/S have consistently said and is consistent w their actions).

It is only in the prism of “I saw a rape, ran home for council from Dad, ran to JVP the next day ...” and they stonewalled and covered it up that this whole thing blew up.

If the story was McQ saw or heard something strange, thought about it for 2 months before talking to Joe, told CSS he saw something strange that concerned him, they followed up and confirmed strange but not evil, told 2nd Mile who agreed, the outcome for all involved is extremely different. And it is far more likely than not that this is what happened, up until the point when McQ changes his story, the date, etc...
 
That’s crazy. The date change makes it obvious that McQueary didn’t see anything that made him really concerned. Which is 100% consistent w his actions and everyone else’s (Mr. M, Dr D, JVP). Which makes it far more likely that he didn’t tell C/S/S of anything heinous (as C/S/S have consistently said and is consistent w their actions).

It is only in the prism of “I saw a rape, ran home for council from Dad, ran to JVP the next day ...” and they stonewalled and covered it up that this whole thing blew up.

If the story was McQ saw or heard something strange, thought about it for 2 months before talking to Joe, told CSS he saw something strange that concerned him, they followed up and confirmed strange but not evil, told 2nd Mile who agreed, the outcome for all involved is extremely different. And it is far more likely than not that this is what happened, up until the point when McQ changes his story, the date, etc...

Sounds like CSS, at least one of them, should have taken some notes. If they had just done that one simple basic thing, nothing happens years later.

You can call me a hater or whatever you want, but if they ever talk publicly, question #1 should be "why didn't you take notes?"
 
Simmons bought into the entire BOT narrative regarding Paterno. I wouldn’t say that he has been “a hater”. But he gave no credence to anyone who defended Paterno.

He had Gladwell on his podcast years ago, and Gladwell was sympathetic to Paterno’s “nice guy predator” defense from the Clemente report. Simmons wasn’t buying Gladwell’s take at all, but in a respectful way.

If Paterno had been the Celtics coach for 50 years, under the exact same circumstances, the first, most frequent, and loudest defender of his reputation would have been Bill Simmons. He’d probably make a skit out of it on that hit HBO show of his.
 
With the date change, goes to show how big of a liar/fraud Towny is too. Not that most didn't already realize that. Where is he now to set everyone straight...
 
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So are you finally going to give Ziegler some credit? I seem to remember you disparaging him several times over the years.

Yes, I will of course give him credit if his work led Malcolm Gladwell to understand the problems with the narrative.

However, my comments in the past have been with respect to Zeigler's poor delivery of the message (confrontational, loud, disjointed, emphasizing irrelevant points, etc), and his denial of Sandusky's culpability. I still stand by those things.
 
Sounds like CSS, at least one of them, should have taken some notes. If they had just done that one simple basic thing, nothing happens years later.

You can call me a hater or whatever you want, but if they ever talk publicly, question #1 should be "why didn't you take notes?"
The answer is probably, “Because, based on what we were told at the time, there was no reason to.”
 
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Sounds like CSS, at least one of them, should have taken some notes. If they had just done that one simple basic thing, nothing happens years later.

You can call me a hater or whatever you want, but if they ever talk publicly, question #1 should be "why didn't you take notes?"
They (well, really just Schultz) took written notes or traded some kind of email documenting what happened regarding every other meeting during this time period. It seems like the only two meetings where Schultz didn’t take notes were the meeting with McQueary and the meeting with Courtney. It’s bizarre.
 
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Maybe you can prove Sandusky’s culpability, cause no one has so far.


Yes, I will of course give him credit if his work led Malcolm Gladwell to understand the problems with the narrative.

However, my comments in the past have been with respect to Zeigler's poor delivery of the message (confrontational, loud, disjointed, emphasizing irrelevant points, etc), and his denial of Sandusky's culpability. I still stand by those things.
 
Get you, but assuming they "proved" is questionable. Many potential issues concerning the trial and the jury pool as well.

I understand some people here have questions. But as it stands, a jury found that his guilt was proven beyond a reasonable doubt, and courts have yet to find that the questions of those on here justify overturning that verdict.
 
I understand some people here have questions. But as it stands, a jury found that his guilt was proven beyond a reasonable doubt, and courts have yet to find that the questions of those on here justify overturning that verdict.

Considering the credibility of the jury, I will share this article.

https://www.pennlive.com/midstate/2012/06/jerry_sanduksys_crimes_made_ve.html

The juror claims the verdict was easy because the stories of Victims 1,4, and 9 “seemed so credible”. The problem is the testimonies of Victims 1 and 9 contradict each other. Victim 9 claimed he was at the Sandusky’s house every weekend between 2005 and 2009, and Victim 1 claimed he was there “most weekends” during that same time period. Yet Victim 9 was not able identify Victim 1 when shown a picture of him at trial, and Victim 1 stated he only met Victim 9 once.

The jury was ruled by peer pressure and their emotions, and was very naive to how good of liars young men seeking $$$ can be.
 
Lol, and California “proved” OJ not guilty.
There are so many more facts known today compared to the the summer of 2012 (largely due to Ziegler).
No, the OJ jury verdict was that the state did not prove beyond a reasonable doubt that OJ was guilty, It does not mean that they thought he was innocent.

I get the point you're making. That trial was a mockery in all respects. Lance Ego was an embarrassment. The prosecution was horrible. Still, he was found not guilty by a jury of his peers.
 
Oh, well the state did, beyond a reasonable doubt, to a jury. Just because you don’t agree doesn’t mean they didn’t prove it.

Here are a boat load of people that were "proven" guilty by a jury of their peers, only later to be proven innocent.

https://www.innocenceproject.org/all-cases/

It happens. And the chances of it happening are far greater in a case like this with no physical evidence, a tainted jury pool, crooked prosecutors, "victims" with a huge financial incentive to claim they are victims, and public pressure to come up with a guilty verdict.
 
That’s crazy. The date change makes it obvious that McQueary didn’t see anything that made him really concerned. Which is 100% consistent w his actions and everyone else’s (Mr. M, Dr D, JVP). Which makes it far more likely that he didn’t tell C/S/S of anything heinous (as C/S/S have consistently said and is consistent w their actions).

It is only in the prism of “I saw a rape, ran home for council from Dad, ran to JVP the next day ...” and they stonewalled and covered it up that this whole thing blew up.

If the story was McQ saw or heard something strange, thought about it for 2 months before talking to Joe, told CSS he saw something strange that concerned him, they followed up and confirmed strange but not evil, told 2nd Mile who agreed, the outcome for all involved is extremely different. And it is far more likely than not that this is what happened, up until the point when McQ changes his story, the date, etc...
When the corrupt AG can file charges based on a victim "known only by God", and invoke statutes retroactively, and allow hearsay evidence, dates become irrelevant.
 
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Here are a boat load of people that were "proven" guilty by a jury of their peers, only later to be proven innocent.

https://www.innocenceproject.org/all-cases/

It happens. And the chances of it happening are far greater in a case like this with no physical evidence, a tainted jury pool, crooked prosecutors, "victims" with a huge financial incentive to claim they are victims, and public pressure to come up with a guilty verdict.

Of course it’s happened a lot. You know what’s happened even more? People who were convicted and still claim to be innocent but are guilty. So far Sandusky has been able to present anything to a court to justify a new trial.
 
Here's a little tidbit from someone who might know a little more than anyone speculating.


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Jay Paterno: New book explains why so many missed signs of abuse by Sandusky ... and why Joe Paterno was blamed | Opinion
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Joe Paterno and Jay Paterno worked together on the same Penn State staff for 17 seasons.






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By Guest Editorial

Editor’s note: Jay Paterno wrote this column after receiving an advance copy of Malcolm Gladwell’s latest book, “Talking to Strangers.” The book is due to be released in stores Sept. 10.

By Jay Paterno

“With the benefit of hindsight, I wish I had done more.” –Joe Paterno

With those eleven words issued as part of a statement in the early days of the Sandusky Scandal, Joe Paterno became a central yet misplaced focus of the story. How did that happen?

This and much more becomes clear in Malcolm Gladwell’s new book “Talking to Strangers.” The book’s powerful lessons address our inability to process the meaning and intent of people we don’t know. For an increasingly disconnected world “Talking to Strangers” is a book of tremendous importance.

Gladwell’s chapters change understandings of high profile stories we think we knew well. Having lived on the inside of one of the cases Gladwell cites, “Talking To Strangers” hits home with amazing accuracy.

Gladwell writes about society’s common failings, starting with the concept of “Truth Default Theory.” Simply, we “default” to believe that people are honest and readily accept explanations from people concealing sinister actions. As Gladwell points out, even parents of Michigan State doctor Larry Nassar’s victims were among his defenders. Some of them were in examination rooms while he engaged in “medical procedures” that were part of his sexual assaults.

They defaulted to believe someone who carried the weight and credibility of authority. But those parents are not alone.

In the Sandusky case, highly-trained experienced professionals with advanced degrees saw Sandusky interact with children for years and repeatedly missed signs. Yet the narrative focused on Penn State President Spanier and Joe Paterno rather than those professionals.

Never once did we suspect that Sandusky’s charity and his life’s work were anything but noble endeavors. Joe Paterno’s own kids and grandchildren (including my children) were around Sandusky. If we suspected even the slightest inclination of that kind of behavior would we have allowed that?

“Talking to Strangers” explains how people repeatedly miss these things. Savvy investors and SEC regulators missed the signs of Bernie Madoff’s fraud. Counterintelligence investigations staring at massive evidence miss detecting colleagues who are double agents. Even experienced judges make the right call on granting bail at a rate barely higher than the 50/50 odds of chance.

But, as society’s cynicism has grown our default is changing. We default to explanations we’re programmed to believe or that we want to believe. Sometimes that explanation is planted in our minds.

As the Sandusky story broke in November 2011, the Grand Jury presentment started with an outright lie about what a witness had told Joe Paterno. Gladwell writes, “The prosecutors, in order to serve their own ends, had turned gray into black and white.”

By 2011, after over a decade of stories about Catholic Church cover-ups for priests this was an explanation that prosecutors could sell to society and the media. That scandal created this default belief; powerful men always cover up child sexual abuse to protect their institution’s pristine image.

The presentment’s false opening reinforced that belief, unleashing a news cycle onslaught strong enough for many to toss out the presumption of innocence.

Gladwell writes of the similar media blitz that engulfed the Amanda Knox case: “The three were arrested, charged, convicted and sent to prison—with every step of the way chronicled obsessively by the tabloid press.”

As the Sandusky case broke the media laid siege to Joe Paterno’s house and the Penn State football offices. Across town the offices of Sandusky’s charity The Second Mile were clear of the media assault. The intensifying media narrative, driven in real time by newly empowered social media, targeted Penn State football. Our people inside were powerless to stop the surge.

Similarly in Knox’s becoming the media target Gladwell writes: “It is completely inexplicable in hindsight. There was never any physical evidence linking either Knox or her boyfriend to the crime.”

The same was true for Paterno. He was cleared by the Attorney General of any type of cover-up and was cited for being honest and cooperative in reporting the only allegation ever brought to him. But the media train steamrolled these explanations.

So why did this go so wrong? Gladwell’s concept of “Transparency” is where we read signals and actions of people as being a key to ascertaining their guilt. We have hardened misperceptions of how both innocent and guilty people should act.

Gladwell cites research showing that our assumptions are not good indicators. Our assumptions only work when those we’re judging are not “mismatched.” If a guilty person “acts innocent” they fool us, and if an innocent person “acts guilty” we condemn them.

Starting with the release of the Grand Jury Presentment, in November 2011, the “mismatch” was everywhere.

By including Paterno’s name in a publicly released presentment mislabeled as a “Finding of Fact” the prosecutors created guilt by association. In a 2013 issue of the Tennessee Law Review, University of Arkansas Law Professor Brian Gallini wrote that Paterno’s naming in the presentment was unnecessary. It also would’ve been illegal in a Federal case as well as cases in almost every other state.

Gallini wrote “Allowing the public to view sensitive grand jury documents—untested by a proof beyond a reasonable doubt standard—harms the reputation of any named third party.”

A plan to address the issues publicly in real time was killed when Penn State President Graham Spanier was told to stand down. Joe Paterno was ready to address the issues but the administration’s last-minute cancellation of his press conference looked to outsiders like a sign of guilt-driven internal turmoil.

A day later Joe Paterno announced his plans to retire at season’s end, which he’d been planning for several months with no idea that any of this was coming. He stated “With the benefit of hindsight, I wish I had done more” neither as an admission of guilt nor culpability. Rather it was an honest man stating he would’ve acted differently if he ‘d understood the full scope of this behavior. Who among us wouldn’t feel that way?

But because society equates remorse with guilt his statement was “mismatched.” Many writers “re-contexted” the statement by ignoring the qualifier of “with the benefit of hindsight.” Others misquoted Paterno’s words as “I should have done more.”

But for those who knew Joe Paterno, we knew a man who always looked first at himself and where he could have done a better job—even when blame for a setback clearly belonged elsewhere.

That night, although neither Paterno nor Spanier had even been charged with a crime, they were fired. Paterno’s six-decade reputation for integrity should’ve earned him the benefit of the doubt. But for society, innocent people don’t get fired, so “mismatched” responses led to a false guilty judgment.

Other elements of Gladwell’s book will also be controversial, but frank discourse is vital to today’s society. His detailed analysis of college sexual assaults in drinking environments should be understood by parents and students alike. Historical data offers insight into changes in Police procedures that led to tragedy. No one wishing to seriously discuss these issues should do so without getting the message that misunderstanding strangers can lead to failure.

“Talking to Strangers” highlights the danger of misperceptions hardened into an accepted but false reality. Default the truth has probably even devolved into seeking and accepting only explanations that comply with what we want or feel to be true.

While Gladwell’s Sandusky chapter is not focused specifically on the journey of Penn State, my father and my family that journey is a witness to the truth in Gladwell’s work. I defaulted to a truth of Jerry Sandusky; a man given a gold seal of approval by experts at State agencies who placed thousands of children with his state-wide charity and allowed him to adopt six children.

People defaulted the truth about Penn State and Joe Paterno because they believed that powerful institutions always cover up crimes. The misleading Grand Jury presentment led to a mismatched University response driving a media and society default to misplaced guilt.

Two months after being fired, Joe Paterno died leaving a notepad found on his nightstand. Some of his last written words were scrawled by a hand unsteadied by the ravages of cancer treatments.

“silver lining—maybe some good can come from all of this.”

He hoped newfound attention for these issues might open society’s eyes. His wife Sue Paterno commissioned a vital February 2013 report by former FBI profiler Jim Clemente to educate society about “nice-guy” offenders.


But people who didn’t know Sue Paterno’s heart cynically viewed the report as an attempt to whitewash their inaccurate “defaulted” history. Powerful people ignored the report because their inability to understand her intent kept their minds closed.

Clemente’s report laid out specific behavior of people like Larry Nassar. Offenders might even be doctors brazen enough to conduct assault behavior right in front of parents. Had someone at USA Gymnastics or Michigan State read that report in early 2013, perhaps Nassar could’ve been detected earlier.

Gladwell’s important and insightful book asks a vital question: “Because we do not know how to talk to strangers, what do we do when things go awry with strangers?”

Society’s future stability will belong to those with the necessary tools to understand and work with people we do not know. “Talking to Strangers” is an important lesson on how to develop those tools. Take it from someone who knows.
 
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Here's a little tidbit from someone who might know a little more than anyone speculating.


  1. OPINION
Jay Paterno: New book explains why so many missed signs of abuse by Sandusky ... and why Joe Paterno was blamed | Opinion
Today 3:16 PM
AML4UFCPU5BGBJQ5WZF3FLHGS4.JPG

THE PATRIOT-NEWS

Joe Paterno and Jay Paterno worked together on the same Penn State staff for 17 seasons.






121 shares
By Guest Editorial

Editor’s note: Jay Paterno wrote this column after receiving an advance copy of Malcolm Gladwell’s latest book, “Talking to Strangers.” The book is due to be released in stores Sept. 10.

By Jay Paterno

“With the benefit of hindsight, I wish I had done more.” –Joe Paterno

With those eleven words issued as part of a statement in the early days of the Sandusky Scandal, Joe Paterno became a central yet misplaced focus of the story. How did that happen?

This and much more becomes clear in Malcolm Gladwell’s new book “Talking to Strangers.” The book’s powerful lessons address our inability to process the meaning and intent of people we don’t know. For an increasingly disconnected world “Talking to Strangers” is a book of tremendous importance.

Gladwell’s chapters change understandings of high profile stories we think we knew well. Having lived on the inside of one of the cases Gladwell cites, “Talking To Strangers” hits home with amazing accuracy.

Gladwell writes about society’s common failings, starting with the concept of “Truth Default Theory.” Simply, we “default” to believe that people are honest and readily accept explanations from people concealing sinister actions. As Gladwell points out, even parents of Michigan State doctor Larry Nassar’s victims were among his defenders. Some of them were in examination rooms while he engaged in “medical procedures” that were part of his sexual assaults.

They defaulted to believe someone who carried the weight and credibility of authority. But those parents are not alone.

In the Sandusky case, highly-trained experienced professionals with advanced degrees saw Sandusky interact with children for years and repeatedly missed signs. Yet the narrative focused on Penn State President Spanier and Joe Paterno rather than those professionals.

Never once did we suspect that Sandusky’s charity and his life’s work were anything but noble endeavors. Joe Paterno’s own kids and grandchildren (including my children) were around Sandusky. If we suspected even the slightest inclination of that kind of behavior would we have allowed that?

“Talking to Strangers” explains how people repeatedly miss these things. Savvy investors and SEC regulators missed the signs of Bernie Madoff’s fraud. Counterintelligence investigations staring at massive evidence miss detecting colleagues who are double agents. Even experienced judges make the right call on granting bail at a rate barely higher than the 50/50 odds of chance.

But, as society’s cynicism has grown our default is changing. We default to explanations we’re programmed to believe or that we want to believe. Sometimes that explanation is planted in our minds.

As the Sandusky story broke in November 2011, the Grand Jury presentment started with an outright lie about what a witness had told Joe Paterno. Gladwell writes, “The prosecutors, in order to serve their own ends, had turned gray into black and white.”

By 2011, after over a decade of stories about Catholic Church cover-ups for priests this was an explanation that prosecutors could sell to society and the media. That scandal created this default belief; powerful men always cover up child sexual abuse to protect their institution’s pristine image.

The presentment’s false opening reinforced that belief, unleashing a news cycle onslaught strong enough for many to toss out the presumption of innocence.

Gladwell writes of the similar media blitz that engulfed the Amanda Knox case: “The three were arrested, charged, convicted and sent to prison—with every step of the way chronicled obsessively by the tabloid press.”

As the Sandusky case broke the media laid siege to Joe Paterno’s house and the Penn State football offices. Across town the offices of Sandusky’s charity The Second Mile were clear of the media assault. The intensifying media narrative, driven in real time by newly empowered social media, targeted Penn State football. Our people inside were powerless to stop the surge.

Similarly in Knox’s becoming the media target Gladwell writes: “It is completely inexplicable in hindsight. There was never any physical evidence linking either Knox or her boyfriend to the crime.”

The same was true for Paterno. He was cleared by the Attorney General of any type of cover-up and was cited for being honest and cooperative in reporting the only allegation ever brought to him. But the media train steamrolled these explanations.

So why did this go so wrong? Gladwell’s concept of “Transparency” is where we read signals and actions of people as being a key to ascertaining their guilt. We have hardened misperceptions of how both innocent and guilty people should act.

Gladwell cites research showing that our assumptions are not good indicators. Our assumptions only work when those we’re judging are not “mismatched.” If a guilty person “acts innocent” they fool us, and if an innocent person “acts guilty” we condemn them.

Starting with the release of the Grand Jury Presentment, in November 2011, the “mismatch” was everywhere.

By including Paterno’s name in a publicly released presentment mislabeled as a “Finding of Fact” the prosecutors created guilt by association. In a 2013 issue of the Tennessee Law Review, University of Arkansas Law Professor Brian Gallini wrote that Paterno’s naming in the presentment was unnecessary. It also would’ve been illegal in a Federal case as well as cases in almost every other state.

Gallini wrote “Allowing the public to view sensitive grand jury documents—untested by a proof beyond a reasonable doubt standard—harms the reputation of any named third party.”

A plan to address the issues publicly in real time was killed when Penn State President Graham Spanier was told to stand down. Joe Paterno was ready to address the issues but the administration’s last-minute cancellation of his press conference looked to outsiders like a sign of guilt-driven internal turmoil.

A day later Joe Paterno announced his plans to retire at season’s end, which he’d been planning for several months with no idea that any of this was coming. He stated “With the benefit of hindsight, I wish I had done more” neither as an admission of guilt nor culpability. Rather it was an honest man stating he would’ve acted differently if he ‘d understood the full scope of this behavior. Who among us wouldn’t feel that way?

But because society equates remorse with guilt his statement was “mismatched.” Many writers “re-contexted” the statement by ignoring the qualifier of “with the benefit of hindsight.” Others misquoted Paterno’s words as “I should have done more.”

But for those who knew Joe Paterno, we knew a man who always looked first at himself and where he could have done a better job—even when blame for a setback clearly belonged elsewhere.

That night, although neither Paterno nor Spanier had even been charged with a crime, they were fired. Paterno’s six-decade reputation for integrity should’ve earned him the benefit of the doubt. But for society, innocent people don’t get fired, so “mismatched” responses led to a false guilty judgment.

Other elements of Gladwell’s book will also be controversial, but frank discourse is vital to today’s society. His detailed analysis of college sexual assaults in drinking environments should be understood by parents and students alike. Historical data offers insight into changes in Police procedures that led to tragedy. No one wishing to seriously discuss these issues should do so without getting the message that misunderstanding strangers can lead to failure.

“Talking to Strangers” highlights the danger of misperceptions hardened into an accepted but false reality. Default the truth has probably even devolved into seeking and accepting only explanations that comply with what we want or feel to be true.

While Gladwell’s Sandusky chapter is not focused specifically on the journey of Penn State, my father and my family that journey is a witness to the truth in Gladwell’s work. I defaulted to a truth of Jerry Sandusky; a man given a gold seal of approval by experts at State agencies who placed thousands of children with his state-wide charity and allowed him to adopt six children.

People defaulted the truth about Penn State and Joe Paterno because they believed that powerful institutions always cover up crimes. The misleading Grand Jury presentment led to a mismatched University response driving a media and society default to misplaced guilt.

Two months after being fired, Joe Paterno died leaving a notepad found on his nightstand. Some of his last written words were scrawled by a hand unsteadied by the ravages of cancer treatments.

“silver lining—maybe some good can come from all of this.”

He hoped newfound attention for these issues might open society’s eyes. His wife Sue Paterno commissioned a vital February 2013 report by former FBI profiler Jim Clemente to educate society about “nice-guy” offenders.


But people who didn’t know Sue Paterno’s heart cynically viewed the report as an attempt to whitewash their inaccurate “defaulted” history. Powerful people ignored the report because their inability to understand her intent kept their minds closed.

Clemente’s report laid out specific behavior of people like Larry Nassar. Offenders might even be doctors brazen enough to conduct assault behavior right in front of parents. Had someone at USA Gymnastics or Michigan State read that report in early 2013, perhaps Nassar could’ve been detected earlier.

Gladwell’s important and insightful book asks a vital question: “Because we do not know how to talk to strangers, what do we do when things go awry with strangers?”

Society’s future stability will belong to those with the necessary tools to understand and work with people we do not know. “Talking to Strangers” is an important lesson on how to develop those tools. Take it from someone who knows.

I can’t lie....I was never super impressed with Jay as a football coach, but he’s a smart guy and damn can he write!
 
The date change makes no practical difference.

- For Sandusky, he was already deemed not guilty on the main V2 charges
- For Paterno, he reported/referred to his superiors ASAP
- For C/S/S, it makes no difference whether anything happened or on what date, they would have had the same responsibilities. Outcome: 2 pleaded to a misdemeanor, one is appealing.

Focusing on the date change is minutia. It does shed light (a little) on MMQ, but his testimony has held (so far) in I think 4 court cases against (generally) fairly good lawyers. I just don't see the date of the V2 incident as being substantial.

Really? I guess you missed the part of the trial where the AG's Investigator, bragged about helping MM pin the date down as March 2, 2001 by buying and going through every TV Guide looking to see when "Rudy", the movie, was playing on a Friday evening as Mike McQueary was positive of 2 things: i] he'd just watched Rudy on TV and was so fired-up he was going to Lasch to do some film study (and take some new sneakers to his coaching locker - eye roll), and ii] that it was the friday before Spring Break Week.

McQueary also testified that he called his Dad from the scene, then went to his father's home... and went to speak with JVP the "very next morning" because he was so distraught and upset about the incident. It was proven at trial that the actual incident was on Friday, Feb 9, 2001, so the Prosecution simply changed the date with no explanation as to how Mcqueary & the PSP Detective could be wrong about it being March 2, 2001 (also claiming that McQueary spoke with Paterno on Feb 10, 2001 "the morning after the incident!).

Now it turns out that the Prosecution was wrong a 2nd time about the date of the incident... Wrong about their claim that McQueary spoke to Paterno the very next morning he was so upset and traumatized about the incident... MM was wrong about it being the Friday before Spring Break week (which he was so adamantly sure about)... MM and the Prosecution clearly fabricated a story about "Rudy" being on which motivated him to go to Lasch (just made up out of thin air to support their claim it was Friday, March 2, 2001 when Rudy was actually being telecast in State College)... MM testified in a counterfactual way when he said that he immediately met with JVP the very next morning he was so upset about the incident... etc... And you think none of this is really very relevant to the State's case? LOL... so much for the legal standard of "Proof beyond any reasonable doubt".
 
Really? I guess you missed the part of the trial where the AG's Investigator, bragged about helping MM pin the date down as March 2, 2001 by buying and going through every TV Guide looking to see when "Rudy", the movie, was playing on a Friday evening as Mike McQueary was positive of 2 things: i] he'd just watched Rudy on TV and was so fired-up he was going to Lasch to do some film study (and take some new sneakers to his coaching locker - eye roll), and ii] that it was the friday before Spring Break Week.

McQueary also testified that he called his Dad from the scene, then went to his father's home... and went to speak with JVP the "very next morning" because he was so distraught and upset about the incident. It was proven at trial that the actual incident was on Friday, Feb 9, 2001, so the Prosecution simply changed the date with no explanation as to how Mcqueary & the PSP Detective could be wrong about it being March 2, 2001 (also claiming that McQueary spoke with Paterno on Feb 10, 2001 "the morning after the incident!).

Now it turns out that the Prosecution was wrong a 2nd time about the date of the incident... Wrong about their claim that McQueary spoke to Paterno the very next morning he was so upset and traumatized about the incident... MM was wrong about it being the Friday before Spring Break week (which he was so adamantly sure about)... MM and the Prosecution clearly fabricated a story about "Rudy" being on which motivated him to go to Lasch (just made up out of thin air to support their claim it was Friday, March 2, 2001 when Rudy was actually being telecast in State College)... MM testified in a counterfactual way when he said that he immediately met with JVP the very next morning he was so upset about the incident... etc... And you think none of this is really very relevant to the State's case? LOL... so much for the legal standard of "Proof beyond any reasonable doubt".
I follow another case in which the can ping cell phone towers around 2005 yet they can't do that with land lines a few years earlier?
 
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