+1000 to everything you said. When I saw the cards being held up I thought it was a thank you to the families that showed up and liked that idea. Then I saw the rest...really bad form. I will make no excuses for it I like Franklin but this was a serious mistake on his part. He needs to fix it and end it.
And IMO, the alarming thing is that this most likely got "approval" from a few levels within the team. I've been around teams & organizations for many years and from my experiences, usually something like this gets the "approval" as OK and gets 'green lighted', from a couple levels.
>1st the defensive players as a group thought of the idea and agreed to do the 'greeting card" (strike #1, the players should have known better, they are athletes & hopefully sportsman),
>2nd the defensive leaders most likely informed the defensive coaches of their idea and the defensive coaches either simply allowed it or even worse supported it as a good idea - strike #2,
>3rd the defensive coaches most likely informed Franklin of what the defensive players wanted to do after each turnover and Franklin either simply allowed it or even worse supported it as a good idea - strike #3
A few years back Terrell Owens scored a TD, pulled a sharpie out of his sock and autographed a football. In that scenario, there is a good chance the 49er coaches had no idea what he was going to do and they were probably as shocked as everyone else........... I do not see any way possible the PSU Coaches were unaware of poster-sized Greeting Cards.