Just some friendly advice: if you're gonna make an accusation like "coach makes them hate the sport," then you can expect questions. If you're not ready to answer those, then you should reconsider making that accusation.Well lets put it this way. The 2 guys i know pretty well is not very high on wrestling like they were in H.S. I am not going to put them out...Kind of felt bad for them now...Maybe they just need a break who knows....
Also, what you're describing sounds like burnout. That's not nearly the same as "coach made me hate the sport." I love my boss and would go far and beyond for him, and I suffer burnout from time to time. That's why God invented vacation.