My 2 cents..
All I really care about is Cael or staff not being implicated in anything. With this whole story the only thing they'd be in trouble for is if they new of SA allegations against Carter and did nothing with that info.
All the other stuff..meh..I can care less about the hazing..happens everywhere in every sport. The theft? It was investigated and nothing came from it..not much more to say about it.
From the article it doesn't say anything about Cael or staff knowing about any SA.
As far as Carter goes..he's a killer on the mat and no choir boy. Hazing? yeah I can see that, whatever as far as I'm concerned.. Sexual Assault? If found guilty, I'll change my stance on Carter..if not..bad on Beau and wife trashing someone with those serious allegations.
SA is serious..that being said..I had my own situation back in college..
Here's what went down..I played football, was captain as a junior and senior in D3 school. My junior year, hooked up with a freshman after a party(18 yrs old). Had a great night..she spent night. In morning, she wakes up and tells me I better not have just "used her" and blab to everyone. I told her I'd definetly be calling her again and would like to see where it goes. I call her a couple days later and no answer. Next day, no answer. Finally I ask by buddies girlfreind (happens to be the girl's roomate), where she's been and I've been trying to reach her. She proceeds to slap me in the face and says, "how dare you ask about her after you raped her!" I lost my shit. Said "what the hell are you talking about, we hooked up, she spent night and agreed to touch base again so we can hang out more." The girl says that's not what she told me. I demanded to hear this from the girl I hooked up with. Me, my roomate and his girl go to the dorm. The girl opens door, see's me and the others and starts crying. I say, "why the hell would you say I raped you? We had a great night?" She ends up breaking down in tears..apologizes to me and her roomate (the one that slapped me). She said it was the first time she ever hooked up like that on a first night and as a freshman, didn't want to be labled as a slut, so told her roomate she was raped." I was floored..I started saying something, but I couldn't even get a word in as her roomate (who was really pissed for being lied to and ended up slapping me over) ripped into her. Explained that is such an ugly accusation to just throw around and she should be ashamed of herself for doing such a thing. Long story short..she apologized, her roomate ended up finding a new roomate next semester, and nothing further came of this. Could have ended up much differently if this girl stuck to her story and made a thing out of it. Even though I was 100% innocent, would have dragged me thru the mud until all facts came out.
I know this is a long read..but just saying..one accusation could destroy a person and they better have proof. If so, I have no sympathy for Carter. If not and it's just something one of his hook ups make up after the fact for one reason or another..I have no sympathy for them. Be careful to judge until the facts play out..
All I really care about is Cael or staff not being implicated in anything. With this whole story the only thing they'd be in trouble for is if they new of SA allegations against Carter and did nothing with that info.
All the other stuff..meh..I can care less about the hazing..happens everywhere in every sport. The theft? It was investigated and nothing came from it..not much more to say about it.
From the article it doesn't say anything about Cael or staff knowing about any SA.
As far as Carter goes..he's a killer on the mat and no choir boy. Hazing? yeah I can see that, whatever as far as I'm concerned.. Sexual Assault? If found guilty, I'll change my stance on Carter..if not..bad on Beau and wife trashing someone with those serious allegations.
SA is serious..that being said..I had my own situation back in college..
Here's what went down..I played football, was captain as a junior and senior in D3 school. My junior year, hooked up with a freshman after a party(18 yrs old). Had a great night..she spent night. In morning, she wakes up and tells me I better not have just "used her" and blab to everyone. I told her I'd definetly be calling her again and would like to see where it goes. I call her a couple days later and no answer. Next day, no answer. Finally I ask by buddies girlfreind (happens to be the girl's roomate), where she's been and I've been trying to reach her. She proceeds to slap me in the face and says, "how dare you ask about her after you raped her!" I lost my shit. Said "what the hell are you talking about, we hooked up, she spent night and agreed to touch base again so we can hang out more." The girl says that's not what she told me. I demanded to hear this from the girl I hooked up with. Me, my roomate and his girl go to the dorm. The girl opens door, see's me and the others and starts crying. I say, "why the hell would you say I raped you? We had a great night?" She ends up breaking down in tears..apologizes to me and her roomate (the one that slapped me). She said it was the first time she ever hooked up like that on a first night and as a freshman, didn't want to be labled as a slut, so told her roomate she was raped." I was floored..I started saying something, but I couldn't even get a word in as her roomate (who was really pissed for being lied to and ended up slapping me over) ripped into her. Explained that is such an ugly accusation to just throw around and she should be ashamed of herself for doing such a thing. Long story short..she apologized, her roomate ended up finding a new roomate next semester, and nothing further came of this. Could have ended up much differently if this girl stuck to her story and made a thing out of it. Even though I was 100% innocent, would have dragged me thru the mud until all facts came out.
I know this is a long read..but just saying..one accusation could destroy a person and they better have proof. If so, I have no sympathy for Carter. If not and it's just something one of his hook ups make up after the fact for one reason or another..I have no sympathy for them. Be careful to judge until the facts play out..