Jerry: I was just reacting to what I saw in THIS particular thread. I don't recall the thread from a few months ago to which you refer, and I don't want to get into the middle of your conflict with Steve. I WILL say that I understand your objection to seeing your daughter being brought into a debate like that. (I trust you understand that Matt merits no similar pass, because he has willingly injected himself into the political arena as a partisan of the first order.)
I would add that you are very forthright here about your conservative Catholic values. I have no issue with that whatsoever, and I trust most of the other posters here feel the same way. But that does not mean that I, or they, necessarily agree with your views. Your daughter has quite clearly made a sacrifice to serve as a nun, particularly a cloistered nun. I sense your pride concerning that sacrifice. However, others here (particularly non-Catholics and atheists) are not likely to regard the value or wisdom of that sacrifice in the same way you do. No one likes to see their family members criticized or attacked. I think that explains why some (many?) posters are reluctant to say much about their personal lives or family when they post here.
Thanks, those are all reasonable points, Laf.
I've always said Matt is fair game. He's a popular conservative figure with strongly-held views that piss off a lot of people. I've never had a problem with the shots taken at him here and honestly feel (and appreciate) that it's all stayed within the bounds of decency.
As for my daughter, at some point, in connection with one or other discussion of religious issues on this forum, I identified her as a professed sister of the Poor Clares, a Catholic women's religious order holding to a severe regime of prayer and fasting in service to God.
Yes, you're damn right I'm "proud" of her. In fact, I'm in awe of her. And I still miss her a lot. Her Mom and I can only see and talk to her twice a year behind a screen, but I write to her every single week. (No laptops or e-mail at the monastery.)
In fact, it was not I who brought up the subject of my daughter's vocation in an unrelated thread some months ago when Steve injected himself with a gratuitous, bizarre, and foul lie about her.
Moreover, I quite understand that others may not esteem or understand the "value or wisdom" of her sacrifice in the same way as do I. But that doesn't give anyone the right to tell bigoted, slanderous lies about her.
Such a thing crosses the line of decency and is unworthy of a grown-up man, whatever his beliefs, politics, or experiences. And as her Dad, it makes me pretty angry. Any guy who has a daughter understands my emotions.