But on a serious note... I was at a local FS Open yesterday... 3 pretty tough athletes got grouped up, and they're training new refs in. It isn't the weekend to get worked up about calls...
2 of the killers are wrestling. Obviously, there's a bit more handfighting and checking reactions than say 2 green kids who can barely walk and chew bubblegum. We get deep on a Hi-C, opponent chestwraps us. We drop our lock like a dipshit, and he throws us through for 4... Absolutely correct call... HOWEVER, as we continue through the 1st 3min period, we then get called for passivity, put on clock, and they award the opponent a point. I fully understand that passivity isn't stalling, but we're the only ones taking risk to score, aside from the 1 chest wrap (which doesn't ****ing happen if we don't attack first in the hi-c).
Match ends, and I calmly (passive-aggressively) ask why we were put on clock in the 1st. This ref has been around for a minute, but I don't think he's from our home state. He proceeds to tell me "because blue wasn't scoring, and this is the way we've been instructed to call it." At this point, all calmness has been evaporated. I told the ref that made no sense, and if that were the case, every kid's goal should be to score early and sit because the losing athlete hasn't scored yet and therefore they're automatically passive. Everyone who isn't winning is passive.
I'm really rather calm at spring tournaments, but this was the dumbest shit I'd ever heard.