LOL! I don’t always use non-sequitors but, when I do, they are so strained that you wouldn’t believe that I have Google Alerts set up to notify me about JS posts on BWI.
Sorry, I just got an alert that someone posted about Jerry on BWI.., GOTTA GO!
Why is everything sexual? Is this just a generational thing? I don't get it.
Putting aside for a moment the fact that, even today, it is still possible at YMCA's and public pools that a grown man and a 12 year old boy might be alone in a large group shower together, let me ask you this:
If two grown men are alone in a group shower together, is it automatically sexual? If not, why not? Both men are sexually mature (and probably sexually active). Why does this rationale change when one party is 12 years old (and probably not sexually mature/sexually active)?
For the record, I'm not saying it is a good idea to be alone anywhere with children who are not your own, but just because you are doesn't mean it's sexual.
They cannot possibly be failing to understand this. It's like the flat earthers or those who believe the moon landing was fake--they simply shut their mind to the truth.Because of the physical contact. For the love of god you people cannot just ignore that fact. The physical contact is what makes it entirely different from just two people in a large shower area.
Let me ask you this: Have you and a friend ever taken a shower after working out in a gym and initiated physical contact with them?
They cannot possibly be failing to understand this. It's like the flat earthers or those who believe the moon landing was fake--they simply shut their mind to the truth.
There's a lot more people like that in the USA than there used to be.
Jeez, Indy. Not everything is sexual. I can tell you that any time in my life that I have been naked in a shower and initiated physical contact with the only other person in the shower it has always been sexual. So to recap, not everything is sexual. Physical contact by two naked people alone in a shower most likely is.
AM said he was sliding back and forth across the shower floor and snapping towels. How do you know Jerry initiated the contact? I don't know that he didn't. But you don't know that he did.
I'm more than willing to accept his behavior with the kids in the shower as grooming, if you can show me where a sexual relationship ensued from either relationship. All the evidence suggests JS was nothing but a positive influence on both V6 and V2.How about the first naked bear(bare?)hug in the shower? You can’t deny it Indy, it happened and there is no innocent reason for it to have happened.
You continue to say that it was investigated and he was cleared. But there was also a therapists report that stated the activities between Sandusky and the boy were grooming behaviors. There he is in the same position 3 or 4 years later. You do understand that the grooming behavior the therapist was talking about was for sexual activity, not grooming as in personal hygiene, right?
Indy I am saying this to you honestly. I like you. I have always liked you as a poster. I think you started off thing while sh!tshow we’ve been enduring for the last 7 years wanting Curley to be cleared of any wrongdoing. Somewhere along the way I feel like you began to convince yourself that Sandusky didn’t do any of these things to these kids so Curley is innocent of any wrongdoing. I could be wrong but that is the way it seems to have gone for you.I'm more than willing to accept his behavior with the kids in the shower as grooming, if you can show me where a sexual relationship ensued from either relationship. All the evidence suggests JS was nothing but a positive influence on both V6 and V2.
Sorry, but I have to chime in. What kind of workouts was he having these young kids doing to sweat so much that they needed to shower? Running sprints? Running laps? Does he have OCD and didn't want to get his vehicle dirty? I've driven carloads of kids home from soccer games that were stinky and dirty. They get home and shower. Alone. End of story. No excuses.They cannot possibly be failing to understand this. It's like the flat earthers or those who believe the moon landing was fake--they simply shut their mind to the truth.
There's a lot more people like that in the USA than there used to be.
Sandusky and those two boys had active and seemingly healthy relationships up until the day Jerry was indicted. We're talking over a decade. The boys had become men. You can't just dismiss that.Indy I am saying this to you honestly. I like you. I have always liked you as a poster. I think you started off thing while sh!tshow we’ve been enduring for the last 7 years wanting Curley to be cleared of any wrongdoing. Somewhere along the way I feel like you began to convince yourself that Sandusky didn’t do any of these things to these kids so Curley is innocent of any wrongdoing. I could be wrong but that is the way it seems to have gone for you.
So you will accept that he was grooming the ‘98 victim for sex. That’s only thing he would be grooming him for. That is what that term means. He was stopped in ‘98. 3 or 4 years later he is- at the absolute very least- alone again in a shower with another boy at night. Grooming behavior. If a sexual relationship didn’t ensue it wasn’t because it was not his intent. The intent of grooming is to manipulate the kids into having sex with them. The intent is to have sex.
I really feel like you are close to getting this Indy, I really do. You just have to understand what Sandusky did or did not do really has nothing to do with how Curley handled it. They are separate issues.
Sandusky and those two boys had active and seemingly healthy relationships up until the day Jerry was indicted. We're talking over a decade. The boys had become men. You can't just dismiss that.
And this has nothing to do with Tim. If he got fooled by Sandusky, well join the club. I believe, and have said for a long time, everyone involved did the right thing in '01. Sandusky could be a total monster, but that doesn't mean anything happened in 2001.
This was the flagship case to tie PSU to Sandusky, and keep people from looking at TSM. Preventing Curley and Schultz from testifying for Sandusky was motive enough for indicting them. The case was pure BS! Let's not forget that for all the $ millions the state spent, it failed to convict on every one of the fifteen felony charges.
This narrative should be rewritten, regardless of Sandusky's guilt. And Fina's a big part of it.
I was at a wedding a few years back. The bride was 45ish. She was walked down the aisle by her older brother who sexually abused her from about age 12-16. For the casual onlooker, it looked like a seemingly active and healthy relationship. I could give you many, many more accounts of people who have been sexually abused by somebody and have continued to carry out what would appear to be seemingly healthy relationships with their perpetrator. Part of grooming is normalizing the behavior. Desensitizing the victim.
I’m not sure what else to tell you Indy. You admit he was grooming kids. You just can’t- for some reason- seem to get to the point to believe that he actually took it to it’s only reasonable conclusion.
Do you believe Sandusky actually committed sex acts with either of those two boys? Neither boy has ever claimed so. The 1998 accuser said nothing inappropriate ever occurred after the 1998 shower. The 2000/01 accuser is now claiming abuse after a strong defense of Sandusky, but it’s entirely possible he just came to believe he was being groomed as a teen.
You have a great deal of patience. After all these years it just makes me crazy. But yours is the only way.I believe he wouldn’t be grooming boys to have sex with them if he didn’t plan on eventually having sex with them. If he didn’t have sex with the two he was caught with it would most likely be because he was caught with them. There is no question in my mind that the only reason he was showering with them alone was to eventually engage them in sexual activity. It’s the only reasonable conclusion.
You have a great deal of patience. After all these years it just makes me crazy. But yours is the only way.
You're gonna prove something about your essential nature to your wife by showing her a message board post? Be sure to report back how that works out for you.I’m going to show this to my wife to prove that I have patience. Then, I’m going to ask her to take a non-sexual shower together.
Honestly, I think some people have just gone from thinking about possibilities for how Sandusky could possibility be innocent to believing that he is innocent and defying common sense.
There is no question in my mind that the only reason he was showering with them alone was to eventually engage them in sexual activity. It’s the only reasonable conclusion.
I believe he wouldn’t be grooming boys to have sex with them if he didn’t plan on eventually having sex with them. If he didn’t have sex with the two he was caught with it would most likely be because he was caught with them. There is no question in my mind that the only reason he was showering with them alone was to eventually engage them in sexual activity. It’s the only reasonable conclusion.
You're gonna prove something about your essential nature to your wife by showing her a message board post? Be sure to report back how that works out for you.
One other reasonable conclusion could be that they were dirty.
I was at a wedding a few years back. The bride was 45ish. She was walked down the aisle by her older brother who sexually abused her from about age 12-16. For the casual onlooker, it looked like a seemingly active and healthy relationship. I could give you many, many more accounts of people who have been sexually abused by somebody and have continued to carry out what would appear to be seemingly healthy relationships with their perpetrator. Part of grooming is normalizing the behavior. Desensitizing the victim.
I’m not sure what else to tell you Indy. You admit he was grooming kids. You just can’t- for some reason- seem to get to the point to believe that he actually took it to it’s only reasonable conclusion.
The people who crafted what you believe to be the "only reasonable conclusion" are not credible. They broke laws and violated Jerry's rights. A man is spending the rest of his life in prison as a result of this 'ends justify the means' approach to justice.
I keep saying that none of what I believe to be true makes sense if Jerry is innocent. But if his guilt is so apparent, the authorities should have been able to demonstrate that without pulling all the crap they pulled.
....Honestly, I think some people have just gone from thinking about possibilities for how Sandusky could possibility be innocent to believing that he is innocent and defying common sense.
...You have said you believe Sandusky was grooming these boys.....
Haa!!!With the benefit of hindsight, I’ve decided against that course of action.
That's not what I said. I said I am willing to accept Sandusky's behavior in the two PSU shower incidents as grooming if it can be proven that his behavior eventually led to sexual abuse. I remain unconvinced of that.
Any?Oy vey. What proof would you need to be convinced? Because it’s probably late for DNA evidence. I don’t think there are pictures or videos. What evidence would convince you?
Any?
Both boys denied being abused and maintained relationships with Jerry into adulthood. And you want to convict him anyway?
I'm not discounting anything. Both boys are on record stating they were never victims of CSA by JS. Just because you think he's guilty of abusing some other kids, does not make him guilty of abusing every kid. Not sure what more you want here.You completely discount all those that testified against him at the trial? Do you believe they all lied at the trial? I’m asking honestly.
Again, there is not going to be physical evidence. There is a therapist’s report stating that he was engaged in grooming behavior in ‘98. There are two times that he is known to have been alone in a shower with boys, having physical contact. It defies logic to think that he was grooming boys and not planning on going further than just naked bear hugs with them.
Both boys are on record stating they were never victims of CSA by JS. Not sure what more you want here.
I'm not saying that. I'm talking about the PSU related cases, none of which I believe holds water.And there is a trial full of others saying they were. They are not to be believed?
I'm not saying that. I'm talking about the PSU related cases, none of which I believe holds water.
Jerry was convicted on about 40 of the 45 counts because the jury believed he abused AF. The jury believed AF because the OAG concocted multiple accusations out of thin air. It's a circular argument using only circumstantial evidence.
Each case has to be examined based on its own merits. When you do that, doubt creeps in. That's all I'm saying.
Jerry is where he belongs. Get over it.
You completely discount all those that testified against him at the trial? Do you believe they all lied at the trial? I’m asking honestly.
Again, there is not going to be physical evidence. There is a therapist’s report stating that he was engaged in grooming behavior in ‘98. There are two times that he is known to have been alone in a shower with boys, having physical contact. It defies logic to think that he was grooming boys and not planning on going further than just naked bear hugs with them.
I don't believe that v6 lied at trial. I think he honestly may have thought after hearing the accounts of other accusers and others that what Sandusky did in 1998 was in fact grooming. My understand is that he went to a therapist and tried to remember instances where Jerry may have been sexual, but wasn't able to visualize any abuse. To his credit, I don't believe he testified that Sandusky was overtly sexual at trial. As I recall, at trial he said he wasn't sure but perhaps Jerry had been aroused in the 1998 shower incident. However in 1998 he said that he didn't see arousal and in the 14 years from 1998 to 2012, the interactions between v2 and Sandusky were consistent with a friendly, healthy non-sexual relationship. I suspect that his lawyers and maybe v6 himself wish he would have dug a little deeper and remembered something sexual at trial because that would have mean a bigger settlement from Penn State.
With v2, he didn't testify at Sandusky's original trial in 2012, so he didn't lie there. Regarding his 2016 PCRA testimony, I think he was less than 100% forthcoming. He said I couldn't remember 34 times in questions he didn't want to answer because imo his recollection would have been inconsistent with what his lawyers had coached him to say. To me, having to answer I don't remember 34 times is not consistent with providing forthcoming testimony.
http://www.bigtrial.net/2017/09/boy-in-shower-says-he-cant-remember-34.html
But that wasn't the argument that another poster (wbcincy) was making. He said "A shower alone with a 12 year old is never "just a shower." "Because of the physical contact. For the love of god you people cannot just ignore that fact. The physical contact is what makes it entirely different from just two people in a large shower area.
Let me ask you this: Have you and a friend ever taken a shower after working out in a gym and initiated physical contact with them?
That is a reasonable conclusion, but it is not the only reasonable conclusion.There is no question in my mind that the only reason he was showering with them alone was to eventually engage them in sexual activity. It’s the only reasonable conclusion.