I was born as a lovable and cuddly child almost 62 years ago in central Illinois. In those 61 plus years, I grew into a charming, charismatic, handsome, and humble man that I am today. In between , I started wrestling as a freshman in high school - because someone told that I would be good at it. I loved it!!
My senior year I was undefeated going into state and lost first round. The only other kid on our high school team with a winning record was my younger brother who was a freshman at 98 pounds. I wrestled in Junior College: placing 4th my sophomore year. I went on to wrestle D1 and was a one time NCAA qualifier.
I got a mechanical engineering degree from Arizona State U and worked for a year and a half designing airplane engines. Then I gave it all up to go back to my college as an assistant coach (making 4,000 dollars a year). As a result of the pay cut, I began a painting company because it was what I did as a summer job and it was busy during the of season and not in the winter. After 10 years as a coach - 7 as an asst. and 3 as the head coach, Title 9 took my job away. (March 1995)
I continued painting because I had a 2 year old son when my wife died in November. The program was dropped the following March and I knew I could not raise him properly and coach wrestling at the D1 level both. I have been coaching at various high schools and junior high schools and kid clubs ever since. For over 20 of those years, I was one of the coaches at whatever program my children were at.
My oldest son (29 years old) made 2 greco junior world teams and is working a construction job in Missouri. My youngest son (18 years old) earned a partial wrestling scholarship and has just begun his freshman year at App State. We are hoping he can earn a starting spot. He loves the sport and my wife and I love watching him wrestle.
I do not feel that I have given back to the sport anywhere close to what it has given me, but I have tried. Coaching is/was the best way I could think of to contribute to society. I try to teach the kids about discipline, hard work, using their God given talents, cherishing the moments they have and being grateful for the gift of life and having a healthy body to pursue dreams and face challenges.
I am not sure if I will coach anymore, since I want to follow my son in college, but I will probably help out somewhere. You may not believe it, but there are actually some people who like me.
Then again, I am charming, charismatic, handsome, and humble.