Unlike many people from PA, I didn't really know much about Penn State. The locals in the corner of the state where I grew up were much more into pro football, and the local colleges, at least at the time. Plus I wasn't a football fan at the time (don't tell anyone!). Had never seen the Blue Band either.
Also, none of my parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, etc. had gone to college (a few more distant relatives had), so growing up there was never any talk about the college experience, no allegiances, etc. Just an expectation that I would go, if I chose to go.
Summer between junior and senior years of high school I was getting inundated with mailers about colleges and universities. I was looking at mostly smaller schools, had visited some as part programs in high school, and we had visited a couple of schools that summer I was thinking about. I got big, shiny mailer from Penn State and was immediately drawn to it, although I wasn't sure why. But it had me thinking "bigger" in terms of my thoughts on what I might do after high school. So my mother and I made the long trek down to University Park for an orientation day.
We parked the car, and started walking across campus to the HUB where the first meeting was. We had been walking maybe 5 minutes and my mother looked at me, and said, "This is where you're going, isn't it?" I don't know what look I had on my face, but she knew. And so did I. One of those rare moments in life when I knew in my gut this was where I belonged, and it was instantaneous. Maybe I went to Penn State in a past life, who knows.
My mother wanted me to go somewhere closer, but she didn't pressure me. I only applied to Penn State (the hubris of youth, perhaps... or maybe my high school guidance counselor telling me I could get into just about any non Ivy I wanted), and thank God they accepted me to main campus. The rest, as they say, is history, and it was the best decision I ever made. The experience shaped me in so many ways, and I got to do things I never even dreamed of doing before then.