If your friends and neighbor's are also robbing banks, yes.
The University isn't "going after" frats that had nothing to do with it. They're putting rules in place to try to prevent this from happening again, while balancing the social aspects of the fraternities. The fraternity in question had its recognition removed. No other "innocent" fraternity was subject to the same punishment. So, they are not being treated the same as the offending fraternity.
It seems to boil down to this: those upset at the university and now the DA seem to think that excessive drinking and hazing is fine, and boys will be boys, and everyone did it back in the day and we turned out OK, so why punish these poor boys who did nothing wrong other than get completely wasted, help one of their pledges get completely wasted, and refuse to get said pledge help when he injured himself. Oh yeah, the pledge died due to both their actions and/or inactions. But that shouldn't ruin these boys futures.
The DUI example is a good one. A DUI charge is less severe than if you kill someone while DUI. You choose to drive while intoxicated, you're rolling the dice. These boys rolled the dice and lost.
And I'm calling them "boys" but let's be real... they're adults. You can argue our drinking laws that consider them underage don't make sense, but they're legal adults who made bad choices.
If fraternities are ONLY about parties and getting wasted, then what's the point? I never understood the party culture, and I think it was a hell of a lot more prevalent when I went to school than it is now. I enjoy having a few drinks and relaxing. But I've only been really wasted a few times in my life and have no desire to repeat that. The experience was not worth the fallout the next day. If that makes me a prude, so be it. These people that feel it's an "integral part of the college experience" to get wasted every weekend... I just don't get it. How did that prepare you for your career, add to your knowledge, and to be a productive member of society? Isn't that the point of college?