Wrestling is a sport you have to want to do down deep in your soul to be successful. It is just too tough to do just for the heck of it.
Someone I grew up close to in PA went to states his freshman year, didn't make it out of regionals his sophomore year, didn't make it out of districts his junior year, and didn't make it out of section his senior year. As time when by, he was wrestling less and less for himself and more and more for his parents. It most definitely had nothing to do with his talents ... he just had other passions that he cared much more about each passing year than wrestling.