You are 100% right on one count:You seem to be taking this a bit too personally. Did you have some past issue with consent? Did you hop on a train you weren't invited to? Even if a girl gives consent to 4 guys, it doesn't give you the right to be number 5 just because she's too drunk to notice.
I take it VERY personally.
I take it VERY personally when self-interested, unaccountable, dim-witted, unethical, morally-vacuous, self-righteous, incompetent douchebags wield power over others.
If that's a vice.......I own it.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Thin_Blue_Line_(1988_film)