I think I read all of these and I have a question.. how come nobody mentioned Marshawn Lynch? Among others?
It seems the owners (and fans?) are saying if you are good enough to get us a few wins and maybe make the playoffs, you can do handsprings or smoke weed or beat up a cheerleader on the sidelines and we're cool with that (ok, perhaps the cheerleader part was an exaggeration... btw, everytime i spell exaggeration it simply looks wrong).
The video aside (and you can make a lot of mid-level players look damned good on a highlight reel) Kap is not valued in the same manner by fans or owners and it simply isn't worth the agg to bring him on board (although i'll be shocked if someone doesn't go for it).
As to the Vets issue... I think society in general (not Vets) presume they know what Vets have lived and died for... likely not accurate, but people make assumptions. Frankly I'd be more curious what oldtimer Vets (Korea, WW1 and 2) think about it more so than those in Vietnam or later... might be the same. but i'd be interested in that conversation. [I know what my Father would have to say and i know what my brother says.]
I think it would be entertaining if the owners all walked into the locker rooms and told the players that if they want to do anything but stand and respect the anthem/flag, that's cool. BUT if you don't play (and make all those cool mega-bucks bonuses), well, that might just be the result. Doubt any owners have cajones to do so, but it would be fun to watch and see how a player like Lynch would respond if his millions in bonuses went poof. [and for all i know, there is some guarantee in the contract that protects them from this kind of thing.]