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OT: I’m gonna lose 25 pounds by June.

I weigh myself daily and input to the fitbit, but I focus on the 3 month trend graph rather than the dailies. That's especially important in my case, since I always take 1-2 days off per week from "formal" exercise for rest and recovery. Even teh dumbest fitbit is a useful tool where you can input food and fluid intake as well. Just doing that can be both a reminder and an eye opener in terms of the inputs.
I use My Fitness Pal to track my food intake. It links with my Garmin watch and they two share my inputs. The hardest thing I found when I started using MFP was watching the calories add up and the realization that I was eating like garbage. MFP and similar tools only help if you're honest with them.
 
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I use My Fitness Pal to track my food intake. It links with my Garmin watch and they two share my inputs. The hardest thing I found when I started using MFP was watching the calories add up and the realization that I was eating like garbage. MFP and similar tools only help if you're honest with them.

I also use MFP for my macro counting, and you're spot on. you HAVE to be honest and dedicated with it. the slightest thing.... like when i have salads, i have balsamic vinegar (not vinaigrette) and 2 TBSP is 60 calories and 14g of carbs. you have to count EVERY LITTLE THING, no matter how small or insignificant you think it is. Also REALLY REALLY like the barcode scanner that it has integrated in it. makes it SO easy
 
5'10, 168lbs here... I have the opposite problem... how do I put on more weight? ?!
What is your age, experience, and goals? For younger guys I honestly don't recommend going too big too soon. Getting the right plan and form is more important. Consistency is most critical. Some go hard out of the gate and then fall off a cliff.

Consistency is why you see some older guys in the gym who are outpacing the young guys. I was lifting in a gym about 4 years ago and had maybe 275 on the bench and some guy asked if I wanted him to spot me. Talking to him afterwards, it turned out the guy was over 70 years old and you would have thought he was an in shape 50. That only happens with consistency and that's some true motivation for me right there. He obviously knew he could pull 275 pounds off of me if I had trouble with it.

Everyone has a different mindset. I remember working out with a 6"2" 230lbs Marine who was early 20s as an undergrad at PSU after he had served. He could lift the house and I thought he should just maintain size but he said he wanted to be a freak. I didn't get it.

As for routine, I like to break it up in push days, pull days, and leg days. If you work the same body parts each day then you aren't allowing recovery and just keep breaking the muscle tissue down. So I usually do:

Day 1 PUSH chest/triceps day - Flat bench, incline bench, (you can do decline as well), flat and incline dumbbell press (these are important to work stabilizer muscles as you rarely push at the exact same angle in everyday use), flat and incline dumbbell flys, triceps push down with a cable machine, triceps kickback with dumbbells, close grip bench, etc. You don't have to do all if you don't want.

Day 2 FIRST LEG DAY which has heavy multi-joint exercises like squat, deadlifts, and leg press (although some do not recommend this including I believe Galt's staff due to the angle of your pelvis and pressure on the lower lumbars). I usually do calf raise as well from the leg press machine by sliding the feet down to the bottom of the foot hold so that the heel is off of the hold but the balls of the feet are still on them.

Day 3 PULL DAY (back and biceps) which starts with weighted pull ups (or regular ones or you can do assisted pull ups), then lat pull downs, then low rows, then some other type of row maybe with a T-bar or using a dumbell, then preacher curls, then seated and/or standing dumbell bicep curls, then I like to do the back hyperextension for the lower back.

Day 4 PUSH shoulders (this also works your pectorals and triceps like in day 1) which starts with shoulder press and/or dumbbell shoulder press (don't do them with the bar going behind the neck, too much strain on the shoulder joint), upright rows, shrugs, front and lateral raises (I prefer with dumbbells), rear delt (there is usually a machine that also doubles as a pec dec but just sit facing the seatback for this exercise), you can also do I/Y/and T which is the shape that you make in moving very light dumbbells while facing chest to an adjustable bench at maybe a 30 degree incline, you can also do scaption with light dumbbells (great for strengthening the rotator cuff for baseball players, QBs, etc).

Day 5 SECOND LEG DAY has more single joint exercises and I like to do some plyometric work. You can do leg extensions (quads), leg curls (hamstrings), calf raises (seated, standing, on the leg press machine as above or simply grab a handrail on the stairs and do one leg calf raises with or without a dumbell in the other hand), box jumps (you can do these straight on or side to side), bounding, power skip (as high as possible), or any other plyometric loading of the leg muscles.

Day 6 ABs and Cardio focus. You can do these every day to some extent but this is really just a day for me to focus a bit more on it than usual while giving other body parts more rest.

Notice that there is 2 days rest following each PUSH day, same for LEG days, and same for the PULL day. You need those 2 days for torn muscle fibers to repair and more muscle fibers and neurocontrol to develop. When you first start lifting, good form is so important because your neurocontrol develops first to learn the movement and then become more proficient at controlling the muscle fibers to execute the movement more efficiently. Then you start building muscle memory for the movement and you will see some good gains maybe after a few weeks or so. At that point you can add some more weight but make sure you maintain good form. You are building the foundation.

I would recommend 3 sets of each exercise at a weight that you can do 8 to 10 times after a warmup set of a weight that you could do 15 to 20 times (just so your muscles are warm and stretched, you don't have to do the warmup weight that many reps, it is just to give you the right idea for weight for the warmup). If after doing this for a few months and you have good form and built initial strength you decide to do more power lifting then have at least 1 or more of those sets be a weight you can only do 4 to 6 times. If you are going for more tone do your sets with a weight that you can do 10 to 15 times.

Oh and it is recommended to do a 15 minute cardio before starting to warm up and loosen your muscles. DON'T DO STATIC STRETCHING (holding a stretched position) before lifting. Your muscles need to be warmed up dynamically by moving at a lower pace so you stretch the muscles some but not too much. A light jog on the treadmill, arm circles and other movements specific to whatever body part you are going to lift are helpful to loosen up those muscles without overstretching and tearing muscle fibers (that's what a cold static stretch would do). You can work the static stretches AFTER the lift while the muscles are warm, pliable and can be part of a cool down. Doing too much too fast on static stretching may hold back your lifting gains.

I said before that I'm now middle aged so I don't go hard every single lift anymore. I do day 1 hard (fewer sets, fewer reps, heavier weights), day 2 lighter (more sets and more reps with lighter weight), day 3 hard, day 4 light, day 5 hard, day 6 is not really a lift day so it doesn't apply so much, then the next day 1 is light, day 2 is hard, etc.

Here's a great website to learn and doesn't just apply to gaining weight or lifting but is geared to overall fitness. ExRx.net : Home Try clicking on the very first link ExRx.net : Exercise Directory, it has every lift you really would want to do categorized by body part. When you get to each exercise for example ExRx.net : Barbell Shoulder Press, it has a video of the correctly performed exercise form and some additional instructions and comments.

Good luck!
 
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My wife argued with me on this. I said I want to know what I weigh. Not me plus clothes, plus food and water and coffee, etc.

In the past, I normally weighed myself Wednesday mornings before I went to work. I bowl in a Wednesday night league and if I was happy with me weight loss, I usually had an extra beer or snack that I normally wouldn't get.
That’s one reason why I tell people to not weigh themselves. In fact I tell people to throw away their scales. Lose a few pounds and you want to reward yourself with forbidden goodies. Makes it too easy to cheat. Then you feel guilty, get discouraged. Another problems that if you start lifting or heavy exercising you gain muscle mass which can be very discouraging.

Go by the fit of your clothes like favorite jeans or suit. And don’t even do that for one month, minimum. Better yet two months. After three months weigh yourself if you must.
 
5'10, 168lbs here... I have the opposite problem... how do I put on more weight? ?!
The app My Fitness Pal has an option for gaining weight. No idea how well it works, cause I unfortunately don't have that problem.

If nothing else, drink more beer. You won't put on good weight but you'll gain some.
 
That’s one reason why I tell people to not weigh themselves. In fact I tell people to throw away their scales. Lose a few pounds and you want to reward yourself with forbidden goodies. Makes it too easy to cheat. Then you feel guilty, get discouraged. Another problems that if you start lifting or heavy exercising you gain muscle mass which can be very discouraging.

Go by the fit of your clothes like favorite jeans or suit. And don’t even do that for one month, minimum. Better yet two months. After three months weigh yourself if you must.
Good post.
 
That’s one reason why I tell people to not weigh themselves. In fact I tell people to throw away their scales. Lose a few pounds and you want to reward yourself with forbidden goodies. Makes it too easy to cheat. Then you feel guilty, get discouraged. Another problems that if you start lifting or heavy exercising you gain muscle mass which can be very discouraging.

Go by the fit of your clothes like favorite jeans or suit. And don’t even do that for one month, minimum. Better yet two months. After three months weigh yourself if you must.
For me at least, weighing myself once a week makes me feel better knowing I'm making progress towards my goal weight. For as much as I lack self control, I can typically keep my diet cheating reward to a minimum and not something that's going to undo everything I worked for. I try to keep under 1600 calories a day. Cheat days, I might hit 2000.

One thing I'm realizing going through this thread, there's a ton of good advice in here. But each person has to figure out what works for them. Quite frankly, I'm convinced losing weight is more a mentality than anything. Guess that's why trainers and dieticians get paid a lot.
 
3. There is no three! Cut threes from your diet?
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I never weigh myself ... don't think I have a scale. I go by how well my clothes and /or desired clothes size fits. Weight to me means nothing, its my body feel. I do workout daily and mostly eat healthy ... no fade diets. I enjoy a variety of workouts including free weights, dumbbells, gymnastic rings, body weight exercises, C2 Rower and hiking and trail running in the mountains.
 
and yeah, the gym is a forcing function for me too. but for me, it's the paying the money for the membership. if i pay for it, i'm GOING to use it.
I have a home gym that has about 75% of the equipment of a gym close to me that I now use every day. I am much more effective at the public gym because I am embarrassed to dawdle. Probably save an hour per day.
 
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My wife argued with me on this. I said I want to know what I weigh. Not me plus clothes, plus food and water and coffee, etc.

In the past, I normally weighed myself Wednesday mornings before I went to work.
I realize there can be legitimate differences of opinion on this, but I think it is very advantageous to weigh your self every day but not give too much importance to 1 or 2 day weight changes. Weighing myself every day helps me identify foods that are fattening (or not). Also, one poster mentioned 4 or 5 pound changes per day sometimes due to water. Would be really awful to weigh yourself weekly, for example, and be on the wrong side of a water weight gain.

However, where my weight fluctuates up I know what causes the fluctuation food wise (having weighed myself for a long time) and I just gradually get it down instead of going full panic mode. I keep in mind that 1 lb per week is 50 lbs per yr. Don't have to go crazy any particular day or week, but you have to be disciplined over time.
 
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I realize there can be legitimate differences of opinion on this, but I think it is very advantageous to weigh your self every day but not give too much importance to 1 or 2 day weight changes. Weighing myself every day helps me identify foods that are fattening (or not). Also, one poster mentioned 4 or 5 pound changes per day sometimes due to water. Would be really awful to weigh yourself weekly, for example, and be on the wrong side of a water weight gain.

However, where my weight fluctuates up I know what causes the fluctuation food wise (having weighed myself for a long time) and I just gradually get it down instead of going full panic mode. I keep in mind that 1 lb per week is 50 lbs per yr. Don't have to go crazy any particular day or week, but you have to be disciplined over time.

exactly why I try to stay away from the scale as much as possible. Water weight based on water intake or foods eaten, whether or not I get a good sweat in, fluctuations in general, muscle/fat exchanges.... I’ve finally gotten to a point where I care more about how my clothes fit. That’s my big determination. What hole my belt is on. I do the BF% just to know, but try to stay away from the scale.
 
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exactly why I try to stay away from the scale as much as possible. Water weight based on water intake or foods eaten, whether or not I get a good sweat in, fluctuations in general, muscle/fat exchanges.... I’ve finally gotten to a point where I care more about how my clothes fit. That’s my big determination. What hole my belt is on. I do the BF% just to know, but try to stay away from the scale.
BF would seem to be a pretty good way of measuring progress. The weight scale works for me though, although when I am in the lower ranges of my weight, I can feel that my fingers feel skinny. For some reason, I lose the weight there.
 
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BF would seem to be a pretty good way of measuring progress. The weight scale works for me though, although when I am in the lower ranges of my weight, I can feel that my fingers feel skinny. For some reason, I lose the weight there.

same here. My wedding band slides off my finger easier. That and my watch are my 2 quick ways of telling where I’m at.

man those impedance BF% testers are great. They measure muscle density and mass as well so you can tell not only your BF% is going up or down, you can also tell whether you’re gaining muscle which could look like a net weight plateau on the scale for me.
 
BF would seem to be a pretty good way of measuring progress. The weight scale works for me though, although when I am in the lower ranges of my weight, I can feel that my fingers feel skinny. For some reason, I lose the weight there.
same here. My wedding band slides off my finger easier. That and my watch are my 2 quick ways of telling where I’m at.

man those impedance BF% testers are great. They measure muscle density and mass as well so you can tell not only your BF% is going up or down, you can also tell whether you’re gaining muscle which could look like a net weight plateau on the scale for me.
Just a guess but I think differences in fingers and wrists would be an indicator of water retention since there is little muscle or fat in those areas.
 
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I'd like to lose 15 pounds. But, more importantly, I'd like to lose fat and add lean mass.
 
FWIW: I couldn’t sleep and was glued to C-SPAN during the early morning hours waiting for the certification to end. I was freakin’ starving but I held out. Who’s to say that this thread kept me honest?

God, I was ready to eat my couch cushions.
 
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weigh yourself every morning and either say hooray or damn. Either way keep going to your goal and adjust. Set a long term goal and then smaller goals in between and hit them. I started with tracking calories on LOSE IT app. It works well. Starting with 1800 calories. I tell you after what I have been eating, 1800 seems like 100.
Walked 9 holes golf yesterday with pull cart. That is 600 calories. Now You can net 1800 calories or not count the exercise as part of your daily calories. Will keep ramping up lifting and cardio as I decrease NET daily calories.
 
6 1 I have big bones
me at 215 pre 19
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Veins popping, nice! May I ask your age in that pic?

I am 6’2” 235 and am carrying a good bit of muscle still. I would like to be around 220 but I’m stuck. I think I would have to get really strict with my diet to get my body fat significantly lower and haven’t made that commitment yet. Still trying to eat healthier every day and minimize the booze.
 
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