Just to be clear, I never said someone chose addiction, but that they chose to try the drug, either from peer pressure, bad life decisions, etc.I agree with some of what your saying but we differ on choice. There has never been an addict who chose to be an addict. Over 80 percent of addicted people start using before age 15. Ego and false pride along with the confidence of youth contribute more to the outcome then we want to give credit for There is no way I believe that any 15 year old ever aspired to be an addict Saying someone chooses to be an addict is like saying someone chooses to have a heart disease. It never happens that way How one lives their life can lead to problems down the road. Poor eating habits can lead to heart disease poor coping skills can lead to drug addiction The point is nobody chooses this life. I've been working in this field for over thirty years and it never gets any easier looking at someone who has lost their freedom behind bars swear to their mother they don't have a problem. Horrible disease and it's a shame based disease where most don't seek help because of that shame
I am glad that this has lead to seemingly productive conversation.
And, hats off to Wayde, he is an awesome person that does tons for our community. He is a role model for facing his addiction, helping others, and for making a fantastic cheesecake (the last is to add some levity, but I do stand by the comment!). He is someone that I proudly call a brother from another mother!!!