Right. If you talk, they parse every word and make a big deal out of your word usage. If you don't, they make a big deal that you don't talk.
I mean, if a coach came out and said "it is a bad situation. The kid has been accused of doing something off campus, apart from the team, and was dismissed." They will say the team was heartless and his lawyer will sue the school for not doing enough to help him and keep him out of trouble. If PSU says that they are doing everything they can to help him, the victim's family will sue.
You do what PSU did. You say we are aware of the situation and will have no further comment.