he did not go to the other bench after a throat slash. He shook hands due to the meet being over with Nebraska. Maybe you haven’t seen a dual meet before but after the last match, the teams shake hands. That’s why Desanto walked over to the Nebby bench and shook hands. Maybe i’m crazy but I really don’t think that it was as serious as your making it out to be (yeah you’re right I probably am crazy ) It’s getting figured out as has been said by Desanto, coaches, and teammates. It’s not something that can be fixed overnight but it will be.